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    I am married for 2 years , though my wife is good but is conservative and less fun loving. Wife of my brother in law is daring, outgoing and fun loving. Recently I have developed an attraction for her, but it is wrong,....what to do ? She regularly visits my home and we both drink together....my wife is not much of a drinker.....so the company I have with her regularly makes me attracted to her.

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    Maybe you can change your direction, Spirally, and start moving Up instead of Down if you start drawing limitations and boundaries as to when your sister in law comes over to drink herself silly. She may appear daring and outgoing now but I only see an immature and misguided woman who has no idea how to conduct herself. This is a major red flag even if you were unmarried.

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    • #3
      Nothing good can come from being around this woman. Keep away from her for the sake of your marriage.

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      • #4

        SpirallyDown Your wife is top priority in your life. Respect your wife. Cease your SIL (sister-in-law)'s regular visits NOW (stat). Remove temptation. Out of sight out of mind. Keep in mind, people show their best selves during social settings but living with them is another "sobering" reality check. Socially, they're fun, cheery, up, the life of the party, daring, outgoing, fun loving, etc. but in private life they're not so exciting and living with these types of people are a boor. Don't get hypnotized nor mesmerized by a person in a social setting. That's not the way they are in real life. They're attractive when they're "ON" and a real turn off day in and day out.
        "If you bungle raising your children, whatever else you do well in life doesn't matter very much."

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        • #5
          It's better to distance yourself from your brother and his wife for the time being. Not that I'm encouraging adultery but the fact that she's your brother's wife makes it even more of a blow to the face than if she's the wife of a mere acquaintance. Think about your family and your brother. If you give in to the attraction, you'd have more to lose than when you hire a paid escort to take your mind off the stress.

          The sis-in-law moves in the same circle as you do. By letting yourself drown in the attraction, you might have trouble emerging out of the water in one piece. So word to the wise: Don't. Just don't.

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          • #6
            I don't know if you're aspiring to be a writer of bad pornography or actually this clueless...
            Obviously, you stay away from this woman. Take an ice cold shower every time you think of her in an inappropriate way. That should fix your problem quickly.
            You can't control the waves, but you can learn to surf

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Ayla View Post
              I don't know if you're aspiring to be a writer of bad pornography or actually this clueless...
              Obviously, you stay away from this woman. Take an ice cold shower every time you think of her in an inappropriate way. That should fix your problem quickly.
              Lol!

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              • #8
                Originally posted by SpirallyDown View Post
                I am married for 2 years , though my wife is good but is conservative and less fun loving. Wife of my brother in law is daring, outgoing and fun loving. Recently I have developed an attraction for her, but it is wrong,....what to do ? She regularly visits my home and we both drink together....my wife is not much of a drinker.....so the company I have with her regularly makes me attracted to her.
                Love your wife very much.
                Quit drinking.
                You don't want to say, on your death bed, if only I quit drinking and kept my marriage vows for life.

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