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  • Stopped enjoying sex

    Em.. It is embarrassing but I will try my best to explain my problem.
    From a very young age I always enjoyed sex and turned on easily by almost everything.
    As I got older the urge for sex remained and I loved new experiences in bed.
    Lately I noticed that my sex drive is not high as it used be.
    I had problems reaching an orgasm while having sex, I had a boner but it wasn't enjoyable for me anymore.
    I read a little on the Internet and many people suggested to quit masturbating for a while and so I did.
    At first I thought that It might fix the problem.
    But, I met 2 girls last week (separately) and they are into the same things I like in bad
    When we had sex I managed to orgasm but it still wasn't enjoyable for me.
    I just felt unhappy, It did nothing to me on the inside.
    And it didn't matter what I tried in bad It still felt some how empty.
    I never felt this way before.
    Before I will go a to a sex therapy I want to ask for your opinion.
    Maybe it is common issue.

    A notice,
    I don't think sex is a sin or a bad thing and I am not suffering for a depression.
    Physically I am also okay and also I have not trouble masturbating.

  • #2
    One question: how old are you?


    • #3
      Maybe meaningless sex is the problem.
      "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!


      • #4
        I think Phases is on to something. Sex is just sex. It's not supposed to make you happy, it's a physical act that feels good for a brief period of time. Sex with someone you have a connection and relationship with on the other hand... That's something that makes you feel happy, and lasts more than just a few minutes.


        • #5
          I am only 25 yo
          And I never had a problem having meaningless sex.
          In fact I prefer it over having a relationship right now.
          Maybe some how I do want to have some thing meaningful.
          That's a food for thought.