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    Ive been with my now wife for 4 years before marrying her. We had sex a lot the first year and she begged me after our first week together for Alex but I waited and knew I liked her so about a week later we had sex and that first year practically every other day like most new relationships are. After that first year we only did it once or twice a week and after the third year and fourth it turned to once a week then once every two weeks and sometimes once a month. She said it was harder because we didnít live together. We recently moved together 4 months ago, and for 2 weeks we did it 4 times that week. Then we started doing it once a week and itís been like that for a while and itís only when she wants to. The first year I didnít want to but I still had sex a lot and now she doesnít want to and will reject my advances and itís pissing me off especially since she watches porn like 3 times a week like she did when we meet and would rather do that then do it. Itís not an issue with me because I last long (40mins- an hour) and can keep that up after a 10 mom break for another go, and sheíll squirt about 6 times within that time. So what pisses me off is that she lied to me about having more sex and we talked about this issue but she says Iím selfish at times or will get mad or even avoid the issue and change the conversation. I love her but canít stand this and we got married about two weeks ago but Iím rethinking it especially since I donít want this to keep going on I canít take it. I love her a lot always loyal, treat her right, and always there for her. She constantly reminds me that Iím good to her and I know I am. i Know Iím attractive and a lot of women seem to be attracted to me but Iíve never cheated on her although Iíve had many chances to. Can anyone help me? Iím not ashamed to say that I feel sexually rejected and Iíve told her but she apologizes but never changes. She says sorry but still sheís rather masturbate and I feel like crap. Iíll ask for sex but sheíll say sometimes weíve done it already like 3 times when we only did it 1ce. She said that twice. She says maybe to sex a lot just because she knows she wonít at the end of the night. I look through her phone at her history which is why I know she masturbates a lot

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    How old are the two of you?

    I had a similar problem about 15 years ago, but it was because I had lost the initial attraction to my partner at the time, and I used porn excessively to fantasize about a younger guy I had the hots for, but never got out of the "friend zone" with, and also seemed to like getting off to girl-on-girl scenes in porn, even though I've never been interested in actually participating in that myself.

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    • #3
      Iím 22 and am actually in shape, not like before but I still have abs and a bit of muscle, I used to box a bit and that made me lose a lot of muscle mass but I am still built.

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      • #4
        Unfortunately your situation seems pretty normal for most couples. Some rare couples are able to keep up the daily sex but it isn't the norm. I've heard it declines even more the longer you're together. I have friends who have been married 10+ years and they say they only get sex a few times a year. I personally could not do that. If I can't have sex with my partner at least a few times a week I get really irritable. Once a woman starts withholding sex I make it clear that they need to put out or get out. I'd rather be single than stuck in a relationship where sex is denied.

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