My partner and I have been together for 6 months and I have a low libido. I used to have a high one when I was single as I was not on hormonal contraception but as we are a couple I have been on the pill and now depo injection. It has affected my attitude and lowered my libido and we have spoken about it today and I am trying to make him feel more desired. I also have a dodgy past that has made my confidence as a lover drop. I'm only 23. I took what he said on board and dressed sexy ready for him when he got out of shower. He koticed but said that he doesnt know what im doing as he'd have to do all the work anyway. I had drunk 2 litres of water to get ready to give him a blowing (which he complains he has to ask for) and now I just feel ridiculous. I normally leave a guy for being a dick but he is so lovely and kind towards me. But I am trying for him and he makes me feel insexy and inadequate like I can't please him because only he can. I don't know what else to say I feel like shit
also we have had this discussion before and I've tried before. Same result each time. Should I give up and end it?
also we have had this discussion before and I've tried before. Same result each time. Should I give up and end it?
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