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    My post was flagged for being spam........I don't know why....
    I posted in another forum....I guess I will post here instead.
    I was summarize again...I'm on and off dating this guy I met on ok cupid....but we've never done anything. not even kissed. He texts me for booty call type things. He asked me recently to "bring lube" to a regular hang out. I was really appalled because I never said I would have sex with him. Is it normal and socially acceptable to ask a girl to bring lube?

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    Originally posted by PlatyPass View Post
    My post was flagged for being spam........I don't know why....
    I posted in another forum....I guess I will post here instead.
    I was summarize again...I'm on and off dating this guy I met on ok cupid....but we've never done anything. not even kissed. He texts me for booty call type things. He asked me recently to "bring lube" to a regular hang out. I was really appalled because I never said I would have sex with him. Is it normal and socially acceptable to ask a girl to bring lube?
    Occasionally posts get automatically flagged and just need approval by a moderator.
    Your post has been approved.

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    • #3
      For anyone wanting to reply please do so here instead

      https://www.relationship-forums.com/...mal#post550253

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      • #4
        okay thanks!

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        • #5
          ok deleted, it is already in the other topic.
          Last edited by Eksponat; November 12th, 2017, 10:08 PM. Reason: double post

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          • #6
            thank you eksponat! I read some of your original reply via the digital remnants of my original thread.

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            • #7
              I went on about three dates with him before the booty call cycle started. They were at restaurants.

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              • #8
                I consider myself to be an adventurous prude lol, I try to be open minded but I just didnt know how to react to this particular text....I still don't ...he's awaiting my reply right now and I am sweating bullets

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                • #9
                  just to clarify my original post is not there when I went to the link. His latest text is "are you still a virgin", incidentally I am ..but not all of the bases. Just the last one basically. But, I dont know whether I should just tell him i am or if its too private?? In the interest of trying to be less secretive....
                  Last edited by PlatyPass; November 12th, 2017, 10:54 PM.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by PlatyPass View Post
                    just to clarify my original post is not there when I went to the link. His latest text is "are you still a virgin", incidentally I am still a virgin...but not all of the bases. Just the last one basically. But, I dont know whether I should just tell him i am or if its too private??
                    The original post is still there.

                    Its none of his business if you are a virgin or not.
                    Ignore any further contact from him.

                    He does not deserve a reply.

                    Leave him hanging!

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                    • #11
                      okay!! hahahah ahhhh...i told him that it was just not for me....I cannot access the link! its not there on my screen but perhaps its there on others. Seems like a computer glitch.

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                      • #12
                        Rather than use the link I provided go direct to the chase .

                        Anyway it seems like the topic is closed as you have shot him down. Good on you.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by PlatyPass View Post
                          I consider myself to be an adventurous prude lol, I try to be open minded but I just didnt know how to react to this particular text....I still don't ...he's awaiting my reply right now and I am sweating bullets
                          I'd say "Why, aren't you capable of getting a girl properly aroused?" and then I'd delete him.

                          He wants sex and he's thinking that your three dates is enough time to wait. He's not seriously looking for a relationship with you.
                          "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!

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                          • #14
                            omg thank you for that pithy insight...I agree..My first thought was, we are not at the age where we should be needing lube....

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                            • #15
                              or not...idk..
                              Last edited by PlatyPass; November 13th, 2017, 05:28 PM.

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