Advice on being with someone who is more sexually experienced

[Lkay12]

I am looking for some advice from the more sexually experienced.
What are some tips to feel more comfortable around someone who is more sexually experienced? Sometimes I feel a bit shy around this person because I don't have as much experience in the sex dept.

[phasesofthemoon]

Are you male or female?

[Lkay12]

I am a female. This guy I know is close in age to myself and he has more sexual experience than I do.

[Maggiemay4791]

How do you know he is more experienced? The number of sexual partners does not equate to experience.
He might have had drink fuelled sex with 20 women, but you had 6 months of experimentation with one mam. That makes you more experienced.
If he had 50 partners of man on top until he blows, and you had one experience of the same scenario, you have equal experience.

It would help if you defined experience either on his terms or yours?

[whatshappeningreg]

The number of sexual partners does not equate to experience.
He might have had drink fuelled sex with 20 women, but you had 6 months of experimentation with one man. That makes you more experienced.

An interesting point Maggie! I agree.

[phasesofthemoon]

I am a female. This guy I know is close in age to myself and he has more sexual experience than I do.

Lucky girl

[Lkay12]

How do you know he is more experienced? The number of sexual partners does not equate to experience.
He might have had drink fuelled sex with 20 women, but you had 6 months of experimentation with one mam. That makes you more experienced.
If he had 50 partners of man on top until he blows, and you had one experience of the same scenario, you have equal experience.

It would help if you defined experience either on his terms or yours?

Maggie, you made me laugh for a second there with your response. Well I don't know how many partners he has had. In terms of experience he seems to know more sexual moves and that sort of stuff than I do. He seems to be very familiar with satisfying a female in ways that a man with more sexual knowledge would know. My previous male partner had only one other sexual partner before and he did not know how to satisfy a woman sexually compared to this guy.

[whatshappeningreg]

So you have found a guy who knows how to satisfy a woman.

Why the hell is this a problem?!

[Maggiemay4791]

^^^^^ Agreed!

OP: relax and enjoy a confident guy!

[Lkay12]

So you have found a guy who knows how to satisfy a woman.

Why the hell is this a problem?!

Its not a problem. I was just asking for advice on my side because I have only had one other sexual partner who wasn't as experienced. I still have alot of learning to do about all the different sex moves, etc...

[Maggiemay4791]

Its not a problem. I was just asking for advice on my side because I have only had one other sexual partner who wasn't as experienced. I still have alot of learning to do about all the different sex moves, etc...

Well, you have a guy who is confident in the bedroom, he will lead you, just know your own boundaries!
Communicate with him. Ask him what he likes. You can only gain experience by experiencing :-)

[Lkay12]

Well, you have a guy who is confident in the bedroom, he will lead you, just know your own boundaries!
Communicate with him. Ask him what he likes. You can only gain experience by experiencing :-)

Thanks for the advice! That makes me feel more comfortable

[Himidi]

I am looking for some advice from the more sexually experienced.
What are some tips to feel more comfortable around someone who is more sexually experienced? Sometimes I feel a bit shy around this person because I don't have as much experience in the sex dept.

The key is CONFIDENCE. Also, watch a couple porn videos and see what your boyfriend likes.