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  • How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

    I have a girlfriend that had an ex bf with a big penis. Mine is a little above average, so kind of big. She said his was really big, not mega massive, but definitely big.

    Her and I had sex a month after she last had sex with him. I told her after our first experience that it was snug, and she said that it didn't feel that snug to her. She had no idea at the time how devastating those words were, but since then we've discussed it and she now knows how much that bruised my sexual confidence and whole life for months. She said a million times how sorry she is and feels horrible. She also said that now she loves my penis and it now feels as good and snug as his did, and that her body needed time to adjust to my penis.

    She was with him for two years, and she said her vagina was used to his penis, and that now it's used to mine. The problem is I don't know whether to believe her, or if she's just trying to make me feel better after ruining my confidence, and to some degree my life. So my question is: How long does it take for the vagina to return to normal size after being stretched by a big one for years?

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    Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

    Her vagina is the same size it has always been. They don't stretch and shrink according to the size of the object being inserted. Well... they do stretch but they don't stay that way.

    Believe her when she tells you that she has become accustomed to your sausage fitting nicely in her bun, tell your ego to stfu and enjoy what you have with her instead.

    Tis all good, holmes.
    "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!

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    • #3
      Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

      I see what you're saying phases, but how do you explain her saying that it didn't feel as snug as she was used to early on? That's exactly what she said; that it didn't feel as snug. She says that now she can't feel the difference, but she could in the beginning. And she said that she hated herself for a while for ever telling me. She wished she waited a while before having sex with me.
      Last edited by James; November 7th, 2015, 06:57 PM.

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      • #4
        Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

        Stand back for the question you've asked.

        Is sex with her enjoyable? Do you care about each other? Are you able to explore your sexuality with her and get excited by it?

        If your answers is yes, then why worry about the word 'snug'?? Clearly her previous partner had a bigger penis. She's with you now, and hopefully you're both enjoying your sexual relationship.

        Let it go. You're making a mountain out of a molehill - excuse the pun. There are many more important things to worry about. Honestly, there are.

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        • #5
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          I see what you're saying, and it's very good advice, but how come no one is addressing the question itself? You both have very good feedback and input, but dodging the actual reason for my post in the first place; which is wanting an answer to a simple question.

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          • #6
            Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

            Phases already answered your question. Having sex with a big dick is not like childbirth which can stretch the pelvic muscles.

            The vagina mounds itself around a penis regardless of its size. Of course, women have smaller or larger vaginas dependent on their own body size, so some would not be able to comfortably fit a massive dick. If big dicks stretched vaginas then all the porn actresses would be getting reductions!

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            • #7
              Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

              Have you considered other ways of pleasuring her? Why is she seeing your dick if she hasn't had a few orgasms already?
              %0|%0

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              • #8
                Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                Because as phases already said her vagina is not shrinking. As much as you want her to shrink it ain't gonna happen. So go with what ya got and have a good time. Chances are things are no more snug the. The first time she felt your penis. But she not knows not to tell you that.

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                • #9
                  Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                  Ok, so I worded it wrong. I know that he didn't stretch her vagina and I know that a vagina won't shrink. Really, the issue was more her being used to how his penis felt, and mine didn't feel the same or as good, at first. Sort of like listening to music at an acceptable and preferred volume.

                  We all prefer our volume on our earphones to be at a certain comfortable level. Now, if someone all of a sudden turned up your volume a couple of numbers, it's gonna definitely be louder and maybe stun your ears a little, but after a while your ears are going to adjust to the volume and it's going to be comfortable. After listening to your music at this new, louder volume, what's going to happen is; if you try to immediately listen to your music at your old volume, it's not going to sound the same, because you are now used to more, in terms of volume level, so it's not going to seem loud anymore. It doesn't mean the new volume stretched your ears or hearing or anything, it just means your ears are going to have to readjust.

                  After a certain period of time, your ears will get used to the old sound again, and it'll be very enjoyable once again, and even loud again. Well I believe the same thing applies to vaginas and penis size. Women have a certain size that they really enjoy. And that's not even a big size. Women enjoy average size for the most part. As long as it's not tiny, "MOST" women are perfectly fine. But once they go from normal to huge, their vagina will get used to huge. Now that's not bad news for us normal guys. It just means that, like the music volume senario, their bodies are going to need some time to readjust, that's all.

                  All I was wondering was if my theory is true -- which I hope to God is true and she is able to enjoy normal size again-- then generally how long does it take for the vagina to readjust? I know it will take a lot longer than the ears do, but does it ever feel the same again to women after having a big penis? And assuming it does, how long is the process? I know women here can answer my question and put my fears to bed.
                  Last edited by James; November 9th, 2015, 04:04 PM.

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                  • #10
                    Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                    My new favourite ever thread title
                    Just because someone's by your side, it doesn't mean they're on your side.

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                    • #11
                      Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                      Originally posted by whatshappeningreg View Post
                      My new favourite ever thread title
                      I was trying soooo hard to keep it serious, and now you've just blown it for me!

                      ... pun unintentionally intended.

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                      • #12
                        Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                        Involuntary Kegals going on here...
                        "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!

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                        • #13
                          Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                          Originally posted by James View Post
                          All I was wondering was if my theory is true -- which I hope to God is true and she is able to enjoy normal size again-- then generally how long does it take for the vagina to readjust? I know it will take a lot longer than the ears do, but does it ever feel the same again to women after having a big penis? And assuming it does, how long is the process? I know women here can answer my question and put my fears to bed.
                          I'mma gonna jump in here.

                          her vagina readjusts back pretty much as soon as you pull out your wiener. give or take a few minutes.

                          I think the point you're missing here.. lets pretend her previous boyfriend was massive in size (he probably wasn't) but lets pretend. she gets used to the feeling of being filled up more.
                          It's not a fact that the vag get damaged by the process or stretched out maximally, it's that the feeling will be different, not that it's more enjoyable.
                          hence also why there are women who like big penises more than small, it's not the size itself making a different feeling, it's the feeling of being filled up more, some women like that.
                          There are also women who don't like a penis too big because they think it hurts or gets in too far and whatnot.
                          And there are women who couldn't care less.
                          and there are women who don't like sex at all.

                          as she now has been having sex with you she has lost the "feeling" how how it was with the previous guy and gotten used to yours. this has more to do with mental experience than the physical.

                          same goes with you, as many men you feel insecure about your penis size, that's why her comment took so much damage to you, i'm sure she wasn't trying to destroy your manliness when she said that.

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                          • #14
                            Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                            I read the Godfather and there is a whole chapter about how Sonny had a massive veiny cock and he completely ruined this girl for life, then she went and dated a plastic surgeon who had an average cock and he fixed her vagina for her.

                            Not sure why that wasn't in the movie.

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                            • #15
                              Re: How long does it take for the vagina to shrink back after a big penis?

                              It sort of was, because when he had sex with someone else at a wedding, she got really turned on as her vagina had been stretched by childbirth.

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