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    I'm embarrassed and ashamed but I felt aroused after being spanked by mom.

    I got in some trouble at school after being caught lying about why I'd missed some classes.

    The associate principle gave me a note to take home to my parents. I knew I was gonna be in big trouble because I'd been warned about what might happen. So I wasn't that surprised when after my mom read the note she strapped my bottom with a belt.

    Obviously getting strapped hurt but it was afterwards things got weird. Although I was a bit sore and tearful, my bottom felt all warm and tingly and my panties were wet. But the main thing is, for a couple of hours after I was quivering all over with excitement, to the point where I was fantasizing for ages and replaying what had happened in my mind. Not about my mom of course, just about getting my bottom strapped like that. When I calmed down and things down below returned to normal, I felt dirty and ashamed.

    I'm 14 and I haven't had sex before but I know what it feels like to be turned on, and I was definitely turned on.

    I'm not really sure what to do about it or who to talk to. I guess it just felt strange to enjoy something that was supposed to be a punishment – I mean I was wacked pretty hard. Obviously can't talk to my mom. And my friends would be weirded out by it I think, it's too embarrassing anyway.

    I'm just really confused about my feelings and I don't know who to turn to - what should I do now?.

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    Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

    If your thoughts start specifically dwelling on your mum doing it, thats pretty fucked up.

    I know a fair few people that enjoy pain whilst getting off, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
    I can understand about not wanting to talk to your friends, kids your age are far too judgemental.

    I'd just put it down to hormones, experimenting and growing hormonally. Are you in the middle of your menstrual cycle (ie ovulating)?
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    • #3
      Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

      No not 'on' at the moment.

      I wasn't thinking about my moms when I was fantasizing - just about being strapped. I've never been turned on like that before, it was a bit weird and freaked me out ...just a little lol !!

      I feel a bit calmer about it now, I just have no one to talk to about it really

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      • #4
        Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

        Thats where the animosity of the internet is great.
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        • #5
          Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

          You're 14 so its normal for a woman your age to start discovering her sexual hormones, don't let them get the best of you.


          As for the spanking, its actually biologically pleasing to get spanked. Women have many erogenous nerves there and when stimulated (spanked) it turns us on. So its completely normal to feel that way. If you feel uncomfortable with your mom spanking you, tell her. Its akward, but better than associating spanking with your mom. *shiver*
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          • #6
            Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

            Originally posted by Carnation View Post
            You're 14 so its normal for a woman your age to start discovering her sexual hormones, don't let them get the best of you.


            As for the spanking, its actually biologically pleasing to get spanked. Women have many erogenous nerves there and when stimulated (spanked) it turns us on. So its completely normal to feel that way. If you feel uncomfortable with your mom spanking you, tell her. Its akward, but better than associating spanking with your mom. *shiver*
            Thanks I feel a bit less weirded out by it all now, especially to know that its normal for women to feel this way. As soon as the belt was resting on my bottom something changed for me – fear, became excitement and anticipation, I thought my knees were going to buckle God I feel relieved to be able to talk about these feelings.

            So will my mom understand my feelings if all women feel like this about spanking, cus of the nerves I mean?
            I’m not sure how I can talk to her about this?
            Last edited by Emmi; September 13th, 2010, 09:48 AM.

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            • #7
              Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

              You shouldn't feel dirty or ashamed. Everyone has different hot buttons, and everyone (no exceptions) has SOME sort of non-standard fetish that society shames. You just discovered yours, and that's a beautiful thing.

              It's not everyone who feels that way after a spanking, but there are many women AND men who do. It's perfectly natural.
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              • #8
                Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                there are many women AND men who do
                So much so that I wouldn't even go as far as to say its a fetish....it's fairly mainstream. Try this for an experiment: Quickly and repeatedly (like maybe 10-15 times) hit the inside of your forearm with your middle and index finger reasonably hard. Then soon after gently rub the area with your hand and feel how supersensitive it has become to soft touch and in fact feels quite pleasurable. Although a lot of the turn on is psychological.

                everyone (no exceptions) has SOME sort of non-standard fetish that society shames
                So true. We're all depraved underneath.

                Btw...how has NOBODY picked up on the fact that this girl actually gets strapped by her mother? That's abuse any day of the week. Please don't tell me it's legal to punish your children like that in America.

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                • #9
                  Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                  That's not abuse... I got spanked (with a hand) when I was a child. I was faaaaaar from abused and have an amazing relationship with my parents.
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                  • #10
                    Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                    Well, whatever your opinion of an open palmed "smack", theres a big difference between that and strapping a child with a belt.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                      Getting back on topic:

                      It's a very normal thing to be aroused by spanking - the last 3 women in my life have loved it, and I'm just a few months off of being 22, there are more women out there who like it than you think. Don't think you're strange or anything - it's VERY normal.

                      As for your mum - I'd say you should say something about it if you don't get spanked that often, if she does it for every punishment you get, that's abuse, and the less she knows the better. It's better if you secretly like it and can easily get through it as opposed to you giving her a different sway to actually hurt you (if she really is trying to).


                      Just take it easy, it's a normal thing.
                      Tal.

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                      • #12
                        Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                        Since when is strapping your 14 year old daughter over the bottom healthy discipline rather than mother and daugher S&M fetishism? It's sexual and arousing for adults to get off on spanking / being spanked, but what about a pubescent girl?

                        Her mother knows she's going through puberty and likely facing a lot of new feelings; how humiliating really, to still be getting your bottom spanked by your mother in your teens? Who would deem that morally correct?

                        I doubt the legitimacy of the OP.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                          Pfft, spanking in the teens, thats nothing.

                          I'm ashamed to say, that a relative on a different part of our family tree was breastfeeding her 7 year old boy.
                          Some families are just fucked up with what society accepts, but what they feel is normal.

                          *edit* I was going to bring up the open handed slap thing too in my original post, but I figured thats not the issue being addressed here.
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                          • #14
                            Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                            I don't know...perhaps it is. I, like a lot of women like a certain level of spanking in a sexual context but I certainly can't imagine getting strapped with a belt by my mother would turn me on. Years of this kind of punishment....well I'm just saying surely all these fetishes/preferences stem from sooooomewhere. I'm not even close to a psychologist though so I shan't assess further than that. Just a thought.

                            I doubt the legitimacy of the OP.
                            As do I. Her descriptions are too colourful for a simple recount imo.

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                            • #15
                              Re: Aroused after spanking: now I'm freaked out!!

                              Btw...how has NOBODY picked up on the fact that this girl actually gets strapped by her mother? That's abuse any day of the week. Please don't tell me it's legal to punish your children like that in America.
                              Most parents that use physical punishment (spanking), do so with fairly well-defined sets of rules, with ever-worsening forms of punishment. Repeat offenses typically get the harsher punishments. Since the OP doesn't describe previous transgressions, it is impossible for us to know whether the punishment was too harsh or not.

                              Kids need structure and discipline, and clearly defined rules and boundaries. They will almost always test those boundaries, but always do so knowing what the consequences are. Assuming good parenting, of course.

                              For a lot of kids, and kids are as different from each other as night and day sometimes, going on "time out" just isn't effective for correcting unwanted behavior. As a result, a lot of parents use physical punishment. Others use deprivation of privileges. Whatever is most effective, as long as it is done responsibly, should be used.

                              If the harsh physical punishment is the go-to method of punishment, then there are likely issues that need to be looked into, especially for "minor" grievances, but it doesn't automatically default to "abuse".

                              That said, I too doubt the OP's legitimacy.

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