I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 10 months now, and I just need to say first that this has nothing to do with our relationship overall. I have no worries at all that he is cheating or anything like that. We have an amazing relationship, we talk about everything and we never hide things or anything like that.
The one thing though, is that he is just always so reluctant to have sex. I'm 21, he's 23, we're both healthy, good-looking (I know he's attracted to me physically) and young. We also live with each other and sleep together every night. But I just can't seem to turn him on. In fact, in the past month, the only times we had sex is when he woke up in the middle of the night and we were just feeling each other up for a while and then it happened. But it was at like 3 am ffs! Is it so wrong to expect to have sex at least once or twice a week? It's so strange because during the day when he gets home from work, sometimes we will engage in some foreplay, and it turns us both on, but then he just stops and goes off to do something. When we do get into bed, he just says he's too tired and wants to sleep.
At first I just thought it was alright that we could do something the next day, but it happens almost every night. I've done what I can to try and be seductive, forceful (like, just drag him to the bedroom and have my way), and I'm trying not to play hard to get, but he's not taking either way. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or not. Does anyone have any advice? It's starting to hurt emotionally.