So, while at a dinner party with friends, I learned that my wife of 14 years had a threesome in her youth. That discussion led to the discovery of experiences during her "party years". I was surprised to learn that she had way more partners than I thought, more than I did, and that only 5 were serious relationships. I'm not judging her, in fact it's made me realize how little I've experienced and has me wanting to do some of those things now (I'm 50). She is not interested in "going back there". I joke about her throwing me into a mid-life crisis, but some of these questions are really bothering me.
1. She made a list of the guys she slept with years ago ( not sure why) though doesn't remember the names of quite a few ( not all 1 night stands, either). Is that normal??
2. I remember the names and most details of all 15 women I've been with. She remembers almost no details. Is that normal? Some seem to be very significant times (losing her virginity, most memorable sex, guy with a large penis-doesnt remember anything there, but remembers the small penis guy. No details about the threesome), you see what I mean?
3. She has shared the details she knows reluctantly, but when I explained to her my knowing is better than not knowing, she's been more forthcoming. She can't even remember timelines of when she was with whom, and for how long. Her response is always, " A few months".
5. I'm happy to hear from all, but women especially...is this normal?
1. She made a list of the guys she slept with years ago ( not sure why) though doesn't remember the names of quite a few ( not all 1 night stands, either). Is that normal??
2. I remember the names and most details of all 15 women I've been with. She remembers almost no details. Is that normal? Some seem to be very significant times (losing her virginity, most memorable sex, guy with a large penis-doesnt remember anything there, but remembers the small penis guy. No details about the threesome), you see what I mean?
3. She has shared the details she knows reluctantly, but when I explained to her my knowing is better than not knowing, she's been more forthcoming. She can't even remember timelines of when she was with whom, and for how long. Her response is always, " A few months".
5. I'm happy to hear from all, but women especially...is this normal?
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