My boyfriend was previously married, and I can’t let go of it. We don’t fight often, but when she comes up, I start crying or acting out. It just makes me so sad that this man I love so passionately, that I talk to about forever and marriage, could have already promised to love another human forever. Also, she left him, and he was destroyed after. We didn’t know each other then, so I know it’s irrational to be upset. He’s my first true love, and that love for him is so pure, but it hurts that he’s felt this way before, probably more-so. He’s told me she was just a high school love, that it is different with me, but I don’t really believe that. It makes me insecure that she’s still out there, and that I don’t really know how he feels for her today.
A huge part of me feels completely confident that his marriage has helped form him into the man he is today, the man I love. But a small part of me feels that insecurity- what if she came back into the picture? Does he really want to commit to ME or does he just want commitment?
any input on getting over a SO’s past relationships would be great!!
A huge part of me feels completely confident that his marriage has helped form him into the man he is today, the man I love. But a small part of me feels that insecurity- what if she came back into the picture? Does he really want to commit to ME or does he just want commitment?
any input on getting over a SO’s past relationships would be great!!
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