Usually I have a semi normal sex drive though, and we used to have sex every other night. For the past 2 months or so, my sex drive and my tolerance for this bullshit are plummeting. We still have sex once, twice, sometimes tbree times a week. But every time we do it now, I feel like absolute shit and I start crying. What makes it even worse is that my husband doesn't say much. It feels like he doesn't care, like he's sick of it. I understand that there's not really anything he can do, but the last time we had sex-a couple nights ago- he fell asleep. I started crying and woke him up, and he said nothing, just got on his phone, I'm assuming to surf the net or something, to avoid talking about it.
That's one if our problems though. We don't communicate enough. So now I hate the thought of sex, and I want to propose taking a break from it. But I'm not sure if that will make the situation better or worse.