Often times whenever my boyfriend is not in a chatty mood is when I want to talk to him. We have our fun conversations here and there, but sometimes it irks me that I can't talk to him because he doesn't feel chatty. We tried working it out all the time, but since last week he's been dodging my phone calls or even ignoring my text messages because, you guessed it, he "doesn't feel chatty" (or that he's busy).
I'm the kind of person who wants to bring up the problem and get it worked out right away, but my boyfriend's the kind who just shrugs things off and hopefully things will get back to normal again. I honestly want to talk to him right now, but I feel like I'm bothering him because we've been having this kind of problem before (it even got to a point where he said "Calm down! I know you want to talk and all, but please stop freaking out whenever I don't feel chatty"). I'm sure he knows that already, and I think he's starting to think I'm clingy or crazy.
And it's weird because, like I said, we've been having this kind of problem almost several times and yet he's never mentioned about breaking up with me or anything like that. It makes me think that I'm the one with the problem
Is there a way to fix this problem once and for all? Or am I just one of those extremely clingy girlfriends that needs to calm down a bit? :/