I am not a mean person and don't have a very high mortgage, but I don't like the reaction I get when this subject comes up. She gets very defensive and angry. I have to pay to live here, if I had a lodger they would too, but for some inexplicable reason she doesn't. If she lived here for 5 or 10 more years does she think this would just go on the same way?
Is this fair, yes or no?