recently one of my best mates is getting married in leicester (I`m in Derby) and iv had to lie to him and say we cant go because a family member is ill, because my wife doesn't want to drive her new car that large distance. I feel REALLY bad, I feel I cant go on my own because ill get evils from my wife.
it's like i`m torn between my wife and my best friend, and I hate having to lie to people. I just dont know what to do. There are other things my wife has done which have really cut me but, somehow I feel like if I voice my opinions I will not be listened to and not be allowed to speak and it will decend into a row and nothing will be resolved.
I just feel really low at the moment and dont know where to turn