First I would like to so hi, I'm new to the forum
Hope I'm posting to the right place!
Right, the issue is, I don't know if I'm being petty about this or not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years, we have a wonderful relationship and have never argued due to our ability to be honest with eachother . By now I have accepted and even share some of his family's lewd sense of humour . However one thing that makes me uncomfortable is my boyfriend's behaviour with his 15 year old nephew.
He often makes sexual innuendos TOWARDS him, and in front of me. But today he took it took it too far, and it made me not want to go near him. Like it makes me feel ill to touch him. I mentioned this to him and he apologised profusely and said it won't happen again. He even said he understands my disgust and that he understands that it may take me a while to want to be near him. No raised voices, which is good .
However I am still left with an uneasy feeling in my stomach. It just seems like disgusting behaviour to me. You just don't do stuff like that with your nephew. Am I being petty? Or is this a genuine concern? I still feel like I don't want to go near my boyfriend and just want to be back to how I've always loved and felt about him .
Any responses would be very much appreciated .
Thank you
Shambles

Right, the issue is, I don't know if I'm being petty about this or not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years, we have a wonderful relationship and have never argued due to our ability to be honest with eachother . By now I have accepted and even share some of his family's lewd sense of humour . However one thing that makes me uncomfortable is my boyfriend's behaviour with his 15 year old nephew.
He often makes sexual innuendos TOWARDS him, and in front of me. But today he took it took it too far, and it made me not want to go near him. Like it makes me feel ill to touch him. I mentioned this to him and he apologised profusely and said it won't happen again. He even said he understands my disgust and that he understands that it may take me a while to want to be near him. No raised voices, which is good .
However I am still left with an uneasy feeling in my stomach. It just seems like disgusting behaviour to me. You just don't do stuff like that with your nephew. Am I being petty? Or is this a genuine concern? I still feel like I don't want to go near my boyfriend and just want to be back to how I've always loved and felt about him .
Any responses would be very much appreciated .
Thank you
Shambles
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