So, here is my story. I met a guy a couple of months ago and we have been getting on really well. We were only friends to start with, then he started flirting with me a lot, and we got really close (but not intimate). We know each other from living in the same area, and have mutual friends. Finally, last week, he told me he liked me and I told him the same and we slept together. Ever since we slept together, he has totally gone off the radar. I've heard nothing from him, he hasn't tried to talk to me or see me for about 5 days. Before this, we spoke at least every other day, but most days on the whole. And generally had so much fun and enjoyed being with each other. I'm not pushy or nagging, I haven't messaged him or chased him or anything. I'm so confused as to why he has suddenly gone off grid. He sent me a brief message saying his phone is broken. Part of me understands that his phone could actually be broken, but the other part of me thinks 'he knows where I live, we have mutual friends, he could message me on a computer from Facebook and if he really wanted to see me again, he would. What do you think I should do? Any reasons why you think he may have gone off grid given the situation? Or am I overthinking it? I really like him so its kinda hurtful that this is happening

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