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    I need some major advise right now. My partner and I got together at the age of 14 we are now 21. We got engaged last year and getting married next year. We have not currently moved out and are trying to save for both whilst living apart at our parents. Literally the hardest thing ever. He is sooooo crap with money so I am I the only one who has access to the savings. I feel soooo stressed trying to sort finding somewhere to live. (Not that my parents are kicking me out or anything) but for the sake of our relationship we need to move our plus I want to live together before we get married. Every week we argue about moving out money balbakaba and itís soooo draining. I feel like I am the only one who generally cares, when I try and talk to him about it heís get the jump and tells me to stop going on. We get married in one year... however 2 months ago I found messages between him and these girls they were flirty but not x rated however i am really struggling to come to terms on why would he do that to me? We are on ok terms now but itís not the point. We was thinking of buying a house together as thatís what I sooooo want to do but with money situation and what he done and the mad rush to get out I donít know what more I can do. I have stressed abou this time and time again. The more I think the more I feel like about trying to sort the money situation out. Helpp #relationship #men #newhouse #drama

  • #2
    lol does that hashtag thing work here?
    You listed a lot of problems there. So what exactly are you doing with this type of man?

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    • #3
      I swear I don't understand people who feel compelled to list hashtags.
      "What lips my lips have kissed and where and why I have forgotten." ~Edna St. Vincent Millay

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      • #4
        Set a date that he must save $1,000.00 and if he can't even meet a simple goal like that when he's working and living at home then don't marry him and for goodness sakes, don't move out with him either. You two should be able to save enough for a down payment on a home while you're not paying rent or bills.
        "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!

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        • #5
          Originally posted by SarahLancaster View Post
          I swear I don't understand people who feel compelled to list hashtags.
          Alright Sarah calm down it asked me to hashtag.

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          • #6
            Blueeyed96 Your relationship is on the rocks and crumbling fast. Don't get married, never buy a house with him, don't do anything legal with him or you'll be so sorry! Anytime you're with someone who doesn't handle money well, irresponsible and reckless, you'll go down the drain with him; eventually with bankruptcy, foreclosure or your credit history will be left in ruins. And, he's deceitful with betraying your trust in him. End your relationship and be with someone who is a very good, decent person. Good luck.
            "If you bungle raising your children, whatever else you do well in life doesn't matter very much."

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Blueeyed96 View Post

              Alright Sarah calm down it asked me to hashtag.
              "It?"

              #stopdoubleposting

              We all read new posts... no point repeating yourself.
              "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!

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