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  • Why when I tried to cut her out she told me that we don't fit each other?

    I love a girl who is engaged, she seemed interested initiating conversations almost on daily basis for hours. She told me that she feels like she knew me long time ago, she even told that she knew that I am in love and that my eyes expose me. we knew each other for 3 months and that how it started.

    Without getting into too many suffocating details, and there are many, after 2 months I confessed about how feel for her and she was surprised and when I asked her if she did not know, she said no although she told me 2 months ago that she knows implicitly. Then thing between us became ajar, she did not want me to tell her that I love her but she may get coy from flirt and after awhile she may flirt back. I got very attracted to her, I suffered much from this dither situation, having hope may be something would happen, why do I feel like this?, unable to understand if she loves him as she says, how she is like this with me (even if she calls it friends).

    After one month I tried to cut her out of my life, she asked me why, I told her that I love her, she kept trying to convince me not to do so telling me that it is wrong, and that some people can not get married but can stay together, I asked her as friends?, she said yes, I told her over and over that I can't, unable to understand her persistence and the situation is already hard enough that I am leaving someone I don't want to leave. Eventually when she failed to change my mind she told me that even if she did not have a boyfriend, we didn't fit each other. I said nothing, I don't know why she said that, it was really painful, I was trying to do the right thing. If I meant anything to her why she did not say, if I did not mean anything to her, I am leaving anyway.

    Leaving was the only thing left I had to make her understand that I love her, Why the dagger?

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    You love the kind of woman who engages in 3 months of flirting behind her fiancÚs back ?
    Just be grateful that you aren't her fiancÚ.

    And in future stop trying to cut another mans grass.

    If she can do that on him she will do it on you.

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    • #3
      She's engaged, spoken for and she's contacting / seeing you on the sly? I'd run faraway from her if I were you. She's cheating and distrustful. She's doing this behind her finace's back and she'll betray you, too. You're next. Run for the hills!
      "If you bungle raising your children, whatever else you do well in life doesn't matter very much."

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      • #4
        The "dagger"? That's a malicious person's way of lashing out at you because she doesn't have you under her thumb anymore. She's just a sulky, petulant, idiotic child. Don't be so daft to believe she cares for you at all. She used you like she uses an outhouse for a big shit and then when she's done her business with you, she goes back into her house, her real life. Don't be so easy. Keep your head up and move forward.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Maggiemay4791 View Post
          You love the kind of woman who engages in 3 months of flirting behind her fiancÚs back ?
          Just be grateful that you aren't her fiancÚ.

          And in future stop trying to cut another mans grass.

          If she can do that on him she will do it on you.
          No, I don't like that kind of woman who flirts with someone else while she is engaged, I did not see it that way but I think that I summed it up (concluded) for you as flirting after all hoping that I am not doing her wrong (if not flirting please someone tell me what it is). I thought she likes me, I did not understand if she is in love with him how she would be like this with me, I thought I am special for her she somehow made me feel so when she was trying to check up on me when I want to say nothing as I was not in the mode of talking and she tells "you know I am the most one who tolerate your tempers" and when she tried to make up with me for hours on problem that I made it up just trying to make things to take different way or slow things down a little bit. I sometimes thought that she may actually feel jealous when I told her that I can not be the person she wants me to be as a friend, she kept asking me why, then when she saw me talking to another girl she told me so you talk to other girls why don't you want to talk to me?. why she was so clingy, who am I for her?
          Last edited by maged-93; February 25th, 2018, 04:09 AM.

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