I am more of a kawasaki kinda guy
And yes, she has taught me to take things slowly, but I thought for a very long time that my BPD ex had eradicated the ability of me ever feeling any kind of positive emotions towards women again. I felt dead and empty inside for at least 8 months now, and I am happy to have this little crush.
It makes it easier to deal with the fallout ...
My ex is giving me a hard time. I guess I am guilty of "moving on". Who knows, but she has a new reason to torture me. She provokes me constantly. Its not easy when you have to see your BPD ex 8 hours a day. She has a new bf btw ... the 4th after she left me. You'd think she has no reason to hurt me anymore, but apparently she does.