Let's say that a player is simply a man who doesn't mind, and in fact prefers, to have sex with multiple women. One right after the next, or simultaneously with more than one. Notice I'm not including anything to the tone of being manipulative, deceitful, or flat-out lying.
That said, women should be OK with promiscuous men, right? I mean, if he's honest about it from day one, and she voluntarily accepts, she has no right to complain from that day on out, right?
If only it were so simple. Earlier today, I was bored. Curious, I looked up "My boyfriend is best friends with his ex" on Google. Looking through the first couple of pages, I've noticed a common stream of complaints.
- I don't want him to sleep with other women behind my back. What if he's stone-cold honest with you about it?
- I don't want to be used for sex. What if he gives you several wild orgasms, to himself have only one? Who's using whom, ah, ah?
- I love sex, true... but, still, I prefer to have it with a guy who loves me and cares for me. So... are you saying that his appetite for sexual encounters with other women makes him a monster incapable of loving you? Men who love sex are incapable of love--whaaaaat? What about his close friends, what about his mommy? Does he not love his close friends and his mommy?
That's just to kick-start things. Anyway, to the women here, what is it about promiscuous men that you think you don't like. (After all, if promiscuous men were hated enough by all women, then just with whom would those men exercise their promiscuity? Gotcha.)