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  • #16
    Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

    Originally posted by Sociopath View Post
    If what you say is true and indeed an accurate self-assessment (I'm not convinced), then you are one unusual female.
    Thank you!

    And, whether you're convinced or not is irrelevant. You asked me a question, I answered. If you don't like the answer, I can't help ya. Good luck with this topic, by the way. I have a feeling that this is a pretty loaded topic.

    Would you tell us, instead, what you want us to conclude via your questioning of this subject? I may agree with you or not, but if you just go ahead and put the idea out there, people can actually choose to agree or disagree and you won't be viewed as trying to be a bit of a troll.

    If you want a debate on the subject of "what is the definition of a player" I'm sure we could take it at an impersonal route and actually have a full on debate on the matter. Hell, it may help people widen their perspectives on what a player really is, or can be understood to be. Far more constructive as a topic.
    "Every action of our lives touches on some chord that will vibrate in eternity" ~ Edwin Hubbel Chapin

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    • #17
      Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

      Originally posted by Sociopath View Post
      How can children feel special if they're one of many? How can friends feel special if they're one of many?

      For someone who screams "co-dependance, not love" so often, you seem like someone who's actually greedy. But, do as I say, not as I do, right?
      You are comparing two different types of relationships - familial and romantic. Flawed argument.

      Polyamory exists for those that want multiple partners. It works and I know people who live the lifestyle. Different people want different things and we each need to find someone who wants the same. Why is it so important to you to force-feed everyone your lifestyle? You shouldn't need affirmation that it's okay.
      "Why are you always smiling?"
      "Because it's all so fucking hysterical."


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      • #18
        Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

        Describe your ideal man. Perfect, right? Except, why would a man, knowing how perfectly desirable he is, voluntarily perform upon himself a partial castration?

        Or, wait, do you think there are actually husbands out there who don't fantasize about having multiple mistresses? lol... He's lying to you and you're buying into it. But he won't risk losing the pussy he already has for what will probably be a botched attempt at getting other pussies.
        He's lying to me and I'm not buying into it

        I belong to the school of thought that if given the chance, every man will cheat on his SO, regardless of how much he loves her or how much he has invested in the relationship.

        My boyfriend knows very well how skeptical I am of him and every other man. He may cheat at some point in the future, in which case I will dump him and move on to the next man. No big deal. I can find a relationship easier than I can find a pair of matching shoes in my closet.

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        • #19
          Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

          Originally posted by Galapagos View Post
          He's lying to me and I'm not buying into it

          I belong to the school of thought that if given the chance, every man will cheat on his SO, regardless of how much he loves her or how much he has invested in the relationship.

          My boyfriend knows very well how skeptical I am of him and every other man. He may cheat at some point in the future, in which case I will dump him and move on to the next man. No big deal. I can find a relationship easier than I can find a pair of matching shoes in my closet.
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          • #20
            Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

            Hmmm I'm having trouble figuring out what this thread is even about. Are you really asking why most women would not like to be with a man who is going to be promiscuous? That cant be it...

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            • #21
              Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

              Originally posted by Galapagos View Post
              He's lying to me and I'm not buying into it

              I belong to the school of thought that if given the chance, every man will cheat on his SO, regardless of how much he loves her or how much he has invested in the relationship.

              My boyfriend knows very well how skeptical I am of him and every other man. He may cheat at some point in the future, in which case I will dump him and move on to the next man. No big deal. I can find a relationship easier than I can find a pair of matching shoes in my closet.
              I went to my good friend's sister's 19th bday party last week without my girl. I was the slightly older/best friend of the guy throwing the party and this led to many hot young drunk girls hitting on me. Other than politely returning conversation I did not return any advances. Hell I even had access to a whole mansion of empty bedrooms (the party was at the house) that my buddy would of been more than happy to let me use. In fact, there was two of us that my buddy invited over and the other guy was in the same boat as me. He reacted the same way as me and he was really drunk even.

              If what you say is true than how is that even possible? Both of us are in our 20s (suppose to be really horny right?) and could of had a pick of sexy girls 18-22. They were comming up to us in pairs trying to pick us up.

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              • #22
                Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

                I went to my good friend's sister's 19th bday party last week without my girl. I was the slightly older/best friend of the guy throwing the party and this led to many hot young drunk girls hitting on me. Other than politely returning conversation I did not return any advances. Hell I even had access to a whole mansion of empty bedrooms (the party was at the house) that my buddy would of been more than happy to let me use. In fact, there was two of us that my buddy invited over and the other guy was in the same boat as me. He reacted the same way as me and he was really drunk even.

                If what you say is true than how is that even possible? Both of us are in our 20s (suppose to be really horny right?) and could of had a pick of sexy girls 18-22. They were comming up to us in pairs trying to pick us up.
                That's refreshing to hear. But I still stand by my statement that a man will cheat if given the opportunity. Who knows? Maybe a few years down the line when the relationship grows predictable and you're approached by someone you're really interested in, you'll seriously consider cheating. Circumstances, my friend.

                But I do commend you on not hooking up with these drunk bitches. Keep up the good work!

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                • #23
                  Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

                  Oh, and I also want to add that having multiple sexual partners increases one's risk of contracting STDs. You can sit here and argue that if condoms are used it shouldn't be a problem yadda yadda yadda, but accidents happen. I don't want to pay for these types of accidents if I'm dating a guy who is having sex with multiple women.

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                  • #24
                    Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

                    I don't "hate" promiscuous men, I just wouldn't be involved with one because that's not my style or the kind of guy who could give me what I want.

                    There are women who live the promiscuous lifestyle and they are obviously the kinds who are more suited for promiscuous men. Let like types be with like types, if two promiscuous types have a fling and move on the next day, why is that my business to poke my nose into and chastise them for it? I would be a bigot if I expected them to live their life the traditional way like I do.

                    I think it sounds like your issue is that you're trying to mix promiscuous man with traditional woman. Traditional women aren't good for promiscuous men and vice versa because they are not like types, they want different things and are two very different people. Traditional men find what they're looking for in traditional women, and promiscuous men find what they're looking for in promiscuous women, live and let live, but don't expect one to become the other to suit your needs.
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                    • #25
                      Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

                      Originally posted by Galapagos View Post
                      That's refreshing to hear. But I still stand by my statement that a man will cheat if given the opportunity. Who knows? Maybe a few years down the line when the relationship grows predictable and you're approached by someone you're really interested in, you'll seriously consider cheating. Circumstances, my friend.

                      But I do commend you on not hooking up with these drunk bitches. Keep up the good work!
                      I just think your statements make it sound that every man will cheat at any opportunity. I agree that any man CAN cheat given the opportunity (so can any women) but the words you choose to use imply 100% of the time. My single experience shows what you said to be inaccurate.

                      You can not have a successful relationship without trust.

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                      • #26
                        Re: To the women on this forum: Why do you hate "players" (i.e. promiscuous men)?

                        Originally posted by Galapagos View Post
                        That's refreshing to hear. But I still stand by my statement that a man will cheat if given the opportunity. Who knows? Maybe a few years down the line when the relationship grows predictable and you're approached by someone you're really interested in, you'll seriously consider cheating. Circumstances, my friend.

                        But I do commend you on not hooking up with these drunk bitches. Keep up the good work!
                        It sounds like you've been burnt once or twice and are now applying a generalisation to the whole population. That's bad statistical analysis my friend. Your boyfriend will also be peeved with your lack of trust.

                        If a guy or girl has a core value not to cheat (like myself) then the predictability or degradation of their relationship isn't likely to affect their decision. Some of us like to keep our lives drama free.
                        Last edited by Sonny; February 25th, 2012, 09:59 PM. Reason: More

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