Yesterday, we planned on hanging out when I got out of work. She got sick, but she texted me and told me that she would plan for another day, which is cool.
now there's a part of me I don't like and want to get rid of: the worrying, needy person. ok, so here's what I did last night and this morning. I kept checking facebook and AIM to see if she was online. Kind of felt like I was worrying.
Those events are still on my mind, and here's the one that happened this morning. We had a conversation that went well for the most part, although I think I may have asked to many questions. She told me what happened, then I asked again if she just woke up sick. She said "I just told you what happened." She also just got a job, which I'm worrying will interfere with us hanging out. She told me that she has to call for her hours. Then I said " would next saturday be ok for us to hang out?." She said, "I definitely JUST told you that I have to call for my schedule." I'm thinking that remark may come back to haunt me, but maybe not.
So, I'm looking for some advice, maybe some encouragement, on how to not be needy. I don't like that I am, but I do know that I should play it "cool," it's just hard not to worry (i.e. checking her facebook profile, checking AIM) Thanks.