I'm on temporary assignment for my job, living in a place for 6 months.. I just met a girl who I quite like. We went out for a drink and she invited me home and we slept together. I just came out of a very long relationship, and I'm only here for 6 months (a long way from home, and I have NO interest in a long distance thing afterward, been there done that!!), so I don't know how to move forward. She knows I'm only here temporarily, but I don't know how serious she is thinking we might get while I am here.. she seems quite keen, which makes me a bit concerned cause I don't want to hurt her.
At this stage I don't know what I want, I'm very hesitant about getting involved with someone so soon after breaking up with my long term girlfriend, it's still a fresh wound.. but, I do like this girl.. I just don't want to break her heart or give her the wrong impression. I'm not out to have sex with heaps of girls, it's more just for my own mental and emotional security (and hers..).
If I don't want to have a 'relationship' (ie committed, "why didn't you call me last night" type thing), should I tell her this straight off the bat or is that a bit weird (to assume that she wants one, maybe she doesn't)? I mean.. maybe it might turn into that if I feel comfortable, but it'll be limited by time anyway.
Basically what I mean is, breakups are like a hangover, you don't want to think about drinking the next morning (), but then there comes a period later that day where you could have another drink but you're not sure how well it'll sit with you.. That's me right now
So, any advice for my situation?