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Flaky Friend is Breaking My Heart. Please Help!

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  • Flaky Friend is Breaking My Heart. Please Help!

    Lately he has been begging me to visit him (2 hours away) so I agreed to come visit last Saturday evening. No concrete plans but we discussed what we might do. Friday I don't hear from him and then even on Saturday no word. Maybe I should have texted him but at the time I thought since he invited me over that he should confirm. I never heard from him til I texted him later that night. He said he had a long day at work and has tight deadlines. No apology I felt hurt and disrespected that he didn't even bother cancelling. I was so mad at the time that I never responded to his last message. Now a couple of weeks have gone by and I haven't heard from him. I feel so conflicted I think I want to stay friends but I find his flakiness hard to bear. He's been flaky with me in the past many times too. Should I initiate contact? Why is he so friendly texting but flaky when it comes down to actually seeing each other? Any input appreciated, I have been losing sleep over this

  • #2
    Are you male or female? And are you still living with your older boyfriend?


    • #3
      He's not interested. Move on.


      • #4
        That kind of rudeness is inexcusable. Find someone decent.
        "What lips my lips have kissed and where and why I have forgotten." ~Edna St. Vincent Millay