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  • #31
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    I think staying busey is always a good thing! Get a hobby and stay away from the past.
    JEANETTEJEANETTE

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    • #32
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      But dude, this is the past... like, 2 years in the past.

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      • #33
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        moving on to someone else directly after, yeah I've done that one after most of mine, and yeah well that has not lead to much good stuff, lets try more exs, but hey its worth a shot, right?

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        • #34
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          I disagree with #8 a bit... isn't that more of a rebound relationship? And what if the other person isn't in it for something casual, but an actual relationship, and you're using them to get over your ex? I find that a little lame, considering I've been used more than once, although usually for her to get over herself and how unattractive she really is.

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          • #35
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            I really needed that!

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            • #36
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              I am hijacking this thread .
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              • #37
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                "The more I ignore these 3 the more intense they become. Maybe my experience will be a confirming factor as to how any woman, someone might care for, feels when people are hounding them. Pressure push's people away. None of this ladies are bad picks, they just aren't what I am searching for and the more the hound me the more I don't want to be around them."
                *chews on this*

                I hope this is what the guy I want feels. Then I'd be all about letting him go. Ironic how the tables turn - he ignores me to piss me off/get rid of me and then I turn around and hound him more until he's the one who's pissed off and wants to be rid of me. :icon_evil

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                • #38
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                  hmmm.....

                  I'm all for getting over my ex, but there seems to be one problem... I still find myself madly in love with her 2months down the track. She is all that I can think about, and I don't get out that much which makes it worse.

                  I did approach her with this one day, as she wanted to stay friends, and she basically told me that it wouldn't happen, but who knows what the future holds... Later on I got shot down for the immediate future and the distant future, telling me that there is no chance in hell!! So I tell myself that ok I have to get over her, its never going to happen.

                  THEN... later that day she sends me an sms and from that I gathered that she is thinking differently. So I called her and found out that she is now having thoughts of getting back together with me. At this I was like Alice in Wonderland as something I had wanted for so long was finally coming my way.

                  Anyway, she told me that she needs time to think and make sure that she makes the right decision. So all I can think about now is wanting to be back with her and spending the rest of my life with her...
                  Can you guys/gals please help me out here.... Should/would I be better off just 'trying' to get over her and moving on with the rest of my life?

                  Cheers
                  Daz

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                  • #39
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                    I dont really agree with all of this, if you're meant to be together, it doesnt mean you will always be together. Sometimes small breakups will help bring people even closer the next time, people learn from mistakes. Everyone tells me that me and my ex broke up because we are the same people and hold grudges like children, which is true, but that doesnt mean "well we arent supposed to be together." A little work can change some people and make everything work out, good things take time.

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                    • #40
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                      7) Realize that youíre single, and hence, FREE! No more getting dirty looks at parties when you dance with another girl, no more buying stupid flowers to apologize for something. Youíre FREEEEEEEE! (Fly like an eagle, to the sea!) You can go kiss whoever you want, stay out as late as you want, and do whatever you like without checking in with your SO. Want to go to the movies with a friend of the opposite sex? Fine! Want to flirt with that hot guy in your math class? Go for it! Donít want to go dancing at the club? You got it! Want to hang out at home wearing old dirty sweatpants watching a football game with the boys? Cool! You donít HAVE to dress up for anyone, because youíre free!


                      Thank you this is kinda what i needed to hear this made me smile and laugh. Thank you very much!

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                      • #41
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                        Some of this is true.
                        #1 struck true with me. If you read my other posts you'll understand my situation. I told him that when I move, please..please..don't look for me. Pretend I'm dead. I don't exist to you, because I know I'm still crazy about him. I know it, and if he comes back ...I'll forget everything that was wrong with us, and why we didn't work and I'll get hurt all over again. And he'll be safe and I'm the one who's going to have to rebuild myself. Because I made the dumb mistake twice in a row.

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                        • #42
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                          That actually made a lot of sense to me. I'm on the verge of letting someone go myself, and it's been extremely depressing and painful these last couple of days. Yesterday I was in tears because of it. I'm sure there will be more days of that to come. But you speak the truth.
                          It's better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for who you're not.

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                          • #43
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                            Well, looks like I did it again. It's the end of August. Since May I' left. And went back. In July I packed my things and moved out. I moved back at the end of July. Again, hoping things would work. Now, I left for the final time. (I hope). i know, I sound like just another dumb girl. He spent most of the 3 weeks after my return drunk and on pills. A growing drug addiction which I couldn't deal with. The breaking point was this - I left because...I'd found shemale and transexual porn hidden in our bedroom. And an anal vibrator. Confronted him and he didn't deny it. Said he had more. It fascinates him. I was disgusted. So hurt. I left that night and slept at a friend's, and finally went home to my parents. I was destined to help him. So I drove back to what was supposed to me OUR home the next morning, 6am. He's there, smoking weed again.

                            I fell apart and cried so much. He said I was being dramatic. Like always. I realized...he was too broken to fix. And no amount of love from me would save us. I moved out for the final time and I'm not crying as much yet. But I will, because I loved him so much. Now - he's all alone in that house, possibly going to get worse. I can't cope. My father is furious. My mother hates seeing me this way. I know I'm better off and deserve better. But it's like watching a hurt child and walking away ...I can't...save him. I'm dying inside day by day...and behind all that suffocating pain I know I will be ok...and he won't.

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                            • #44
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                              What I get here from all of this and I will say it .Is it seems one is promoting " avoidance" shirking the larger issues, taking the easy way out. well your relationship didnt work out, so what you need to do is diss your ex, show her how fabulous you are , etc etc . well if its a temporary fix. Of course it will work, as a great distraction, but while your kissing and feeling on this other person to tke care of your ego. You will not ethat your no longer kissing your partner, your doing it all over again with someone else. Reality check.
                              I know I know what your thinking, its just bit of harmless fun nothing serious, then you move onto the next becasue you dont want to get caught in something else with this other person. then its time to move on again. Rolling Stones, gather no moss. Then after your 23 rd Next.
                              You may find yourself wondering why is it I cant get into a healthy stable relationship?

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                              • #45
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                                isn't it really just a matter of letting time heal the wounds...a little cliche maybe....but i know everyone has been through this and time is really what it takes to get over the breakup. we can go out with other people, stay active, ignore or harass the ex and try to get them back...but ultimately its the time that passes that makes it less painful

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