So I had written a while back saying I came to the US on a 1.5 year assignment. Met this guy who was my neighbor and after a few months of dating he moved to my apartment as company paid for mine and we were running back and forth from his to mine. So during those 4 months we lived together everything was good, we never had arguments. Long story short I was told one day after those 1.5 year I was going back, so there was no chance to get something permanent here to be able to stay. I was sad and told him, he was sad. I shut down and then as I was not talking he took it bad, he couldn't handle it and came up with excuses saying my dog shedding was a problem so I asked why in 4 months he never said anything until now. Then fine I asked if there was anything else that bothered him and he said my weight, not because of how I looked but because it was not healthy.......that is when I pretty much asked him to move out because how would I be able to be intimate with him after that comment. What I do think was ironic is that is ex wife was like 3 times me. And I'm 145 pounds so it's not like I am huge either but I had gain 10 pounds.
Anyway he moved and I stopped hearing from him except one day I got mail for him which was a phone case he had order. So I left it out and he came to pick it up.
It was hard to move on, I asked him to leave not becuse I didn't love him but because I was very hurt. Anyway 4 months after breaking up he sent me a text a couple days ago saying he was glad to see I was able to take my dog back to my country, that he is sorry if he hurt me because that was not his intention, that he hopes I had a good experince while I was here and wish the best in my life, that he will remember our time together with fondness......so now here I am again thinking of him.....I wish things would have been different.
And in order to know about my dog...he must have been stalking my Facebook profile. I just replied to him thank you for the good wishes that I did have a great time here and hoped him and his dog were good.
Now I just need to move on....I've been doing the paperwork to buy a home in my country so I've focused my energy on that and buying things to furnish the place. I'm hoping once I move back for good next month on the 13th, I will leave this behind.
Anyway he moved and I stopped hearing from him except one day I got mail for him which was a phone case he had order. So I left it out and he came to pick it up.
It was hard to move on, I asked him to leave not becuse I didn't love him but because I was very hurt. Anyway 4 months after breaking up he sent me a text a couple days ago saying he was glad to see I was able to take my dog back to my country, that he is sorry if he hurt me because that was not his intention, that he hopes I had a good experince while I was here and wish the best in my life, that he will remember our time together with fondness......so now here I am again thinking of him.....I wish things would have been different.
And in order to know about my dog...he must have been stalking my Facebook profile. I just replied to him thank you for the good wishes that I did have a great time here and hoped him and his dog were good.
Now I just need to move on....I've been doing the paperwork to buy a home in my country so I've focused my energy on that and buying things to furnish the place. I'm hoping once I move back for good next month on the 13th, I will leave this behind.
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