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    Hi all.

    My partner is planning to leave me in 1 years time.
    I am well established with a good job and a house, love to travel and live life.
    My girlfriend want to move to another country and work for a few years.
    She wants me to want to come with her, quit my job, give away my dog, ect..
    Our relationship is firm and we have very good communication.

    The anxiety and thoughts is hurting me almost every day.
    So the question is:
    Should I end it now, or enjoy our beautiful relationship as long as possible?





  • #2
    How long have you been together?
    How old are you?
    Are you living together?
    You can't control the waves, but you can learn to surf

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    • #3
      Hi Ayla

      We have been together for about 1 year now.
      I am 32 years old, she is 27 years old.
      She has a small apartment, but she stays at my place most of the time.

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      • #4
        So she doesnít want to do long distance ? Itís either move with her or say goodbye forever in a year ?

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        • #5
          Jolo

          Long distance is not an option.
          Yeah, its move with her or say goodbye in one year.

          But should I say goodbye now or in one year?

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          • #6
            If you're not planning on going with her, end it now.
            You'll only spend the next year in agony, waiting for something you don't want to happen.

            Better to end it now than to drag out the suffering.
            You can't control the waves, but you can learn to surf

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            • #7
              Guess you should say goodbye now

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              • #8
                Add my vote to let her go now.
                "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Ayla View Post
                  If you're not planning on going with her, end it now.
                  You'll only spend the next year in agony, waiting for something you don't want to happen.

                  Better to end it now than to drag out the suffering.
                  This!
                  Just because someone's by your side, it doesn't mean they're on your side.

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                  • #10
                    ZAndre Now. Better sooner than later. Get your goodbyes over and done with.
                    "If you bungle raising your children, whatever else you do well in life doesn't matter very much."

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by ZAndre View Post
                      Hi all.

                      My partner is planning to leave me in 1 years time.
                      I am well established with a good job and a house, love to travel and live life.
                      My girlfriend want to move to another country and work for a few years.
                      She wants me to want to come with her, quit my job, give away my dog, ect..
                      Our relationship is firm and we have very good communication.

                      The anxiety and thoughts is hurting me almost every day.
                      So the question is:
                      Should I end it now, or enjoy our beautiful relationship as long as possible?



                      You wonít enjoy the next year knowing itís coming to an end.
                      So with that in mind , try as you might , it will end sooner or later.
                      Dont waste each otherís time , you have different long term goals and sorry but her asking you to give up your dog is imo asking too much and suggests incompatibility anyway.

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