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    I dated a guy last year and we got on really well. Went on four dates and text/spoke nearly everyday. He then ghosted me. He recently reconnected with me via Facebook messenger as he blocked me on WhatsApp when he ghosted me. There was definitely a connection. He told me he was seeing someone for few months but it was not going anywhere. She was a friend with benefits. I was not convinced with everything but continued to give it a go. I came on a bit strong which put him off, I wanted to know exactly what was going on as he I felt he was lieing and I definitely think he was. I sent him an angry text as I was so confused and something did not add up. He would not give me his number or spend enough time with me. He has not responded to my texts and I also stupidly apologised for my behaviour. What shall I do? I do like him. Thank you

  • #2
    After only four dates, why would you think that you're entitled to be angry over other people he was seeing?

    The fact that he wouldn't give you his number says it all. He doesn't want you. Drop it and move on.
    "What lips my lips have kissed and where and why I have forgotten." ~Edna St. Vincent Millay


    • #3
      Originally posted by Sim786 View Post
      What shall I do? I do like him. Thank you
      Call your doctor and book an appointment for a full physical work-up and ask for a referral to a psychological therapist.

      It is clear in his actions that he's either married or otherwise in a relationship and you need the therapy to help you to see red flags when they arise and to know when a guy as absolutely zero interest in you past possibly getting some. Did you have sex with him on one of those four dates?

      In future when you "feel someone is lying to you, listen to your gut and don't give them the time of day.
      In future when someone ghosts you, don't speak to them again if they resurface months or weeks later.
      In future when someone isn't giving you their phone number after four dates and you still have to communicate by some lame social media site... YOU ghost them.

      "First off, welcome to the Relationship Forums, You'll come to understand that I don't pull any punches when giving my opinion/advice and I hope you're not so sensitive to what I see as the truth of the matter." Me!


      • #4
        Please unlike him. This guy is not likeable. It's in your best interests to gather yourself, learn to laugh about how dumb you were and next time don't take things so seriously with a good for nothing.


        • #5
          There is definitely NO connection. He's ignoring you so you do the same and move on. Remove him from all contacts.