Hi there,
I'm a 27 year old woman. I've been in contact with a man (31 years old) for 8 months and we have been seeing each other for 6 months. We had fun dates and have been sleeping together for a couple of months now.
Last sunday we saw each other. We slept together and went out to get some drinks. It was fun (or so i thought). Then suddenly a couple of days later he said he didnt want to meet up anymore. He said he met someone else and the distance was suddenly a factor (30 minutes with the train). Also now we have nothing in common he says. That sunday he said all this things to me:
- i would want to see you more often
- i could see you everyday
- i really like sleeping (just sleeping) next to you
- im into you
- it's actually not that far
- he suggested we go on a date this weekend (he plannend it)
- and he gave me al kinds of compliments
- every time i see you it's so much fun
- i'm, searching for a new job and he said i shoudl look for one in his town
At times he even invited me to two of his close friends bday party (i couldn make it). but still. it looks so weird to me.
Now all of the sudden he acts so cold in just three days. He unfollowed me on instagram directly for example. I just ended saying i liked meeting him and i dont think he's a jerk. He never responded again. He knows i dont date that much and that i have never slept with someone the way i did with him (so many times etc.). On sunday we still had sex and after we went out we ended up kissing on his way back to the station. There was no clue that after that he didnt wanted to see me.
I feel so trown away now. Do i overreact or is it just not oke to do this over whatts ap after that amount of time? Even a call would have been oke (i tried to call but he didnt answer) Even if he has met someone else and doesnt want to see how things would work out between us, is it too much to ask for a normal conversation if only 15 minutes? He has said so many things (how i am welcome to come over whenever i want etc.) and never gave me the idea he didnt like me.
It really hurts my feelings and all i want is to talk about it like normal adults so i can close it as well. I'm gonna be in his town this weekend visiting a friends. I want to ask him to meet up just so we can end it as adults. I'm not angry that he doesnt want to see if things work out (even though he didnt need to act like he did) but i'm more angry about the whatts app thing and cold behaviour. I'm don't wanna make drama or yell at him i just want to close it normally. Should i try to send him and how?
I'm a 27 year old woman. I've been in contact with a man (31 years old) for 8 months and we have been seeing each other for 6 months. We had fun dates and have been sleeping together for a couple of months now.
Last sunday we saw each other. We slept together and went out to get some drinks. It was fun (or so i thought). Then suddenly a couple of days later he said he didnt want to meet up anymore. He said he met someone else and the distance was suddenly a factor (30 minutes with the train). Also now we have nothing in common he says. That sunday he said all this things to me:
- i would want to see you more often
- i could see you everyday
- i really like sleeping (just sleeping) next to you
- im into you
- it's actually not that far
- he suggested we go on a date this weekend (he plannend it)
- and he gave me al kinds of compliments
- every time i see you it's so much fun
- i'm, searching for a new job and he said i shoudl look for one in his town
At times he even invited me to two of his close friends bday party (i couldn make it). but still. it looks so weird to me.
Now all of the sudden he acts so cold in just three days. He unfollowed me on instagram directly for example. I just ended saying i liked meeting him and i dont think he's a jerk. He never responded again. He knows i dont date that much and that i have never slept with someone the way i did with him (so many times etc.). On sunday we still had sex and after we went out we ended up kissing on his way back to the station. There was no clue that after that he didnt wanted to see me.
I feel so trown away now. Do i overreact or is it just not oke to do this over whatts ap after that amount of time? Even a call would have been oke (i tried to call but he didnt answer) Even if he has met someone else and doesnt want to see how things would work out between us, is it too much to ask for a normal conversation if only 15 minutes? He has said so many things (how i am welcome to come over whenever i want etc.) and never gave me the idea he didnt like me.
It really hurts my feelings and all i want is to talk about it like normal adults so i can close it as well. I'm gonna be in his town this weekend visiting a friends. I want to ask him to meet up just so we can end it as adults. I'm not angry that he doesnt want to see if things work out (even though he didnt need to act like he did) but i'm more angry about the whatts app thing and cold behaviour. I'm don't wanna make drama or yell at him i just want to close it normally. Should i try to send him and how?
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