The last day he saw me was Veteran's Day which was more or less his last child free evening. He then had them the following weekend, had them for Thanksgiving (alternating holidays as per his custody arrangement) then he had them the very next weekend. In short, he had them three weekends in a row. This is his first child free week and he informed me that he was attending his nephew's hockey tournament out of state and making it a boy's weekend with his brother-in-law. Ugh.
This means he will have his children next week, then he'll be out of state visiting his extended family for Christmas and New Year's. So in a nutshell? I'm not going to see him for two months straight. Needless to say, when I found this out the other day I hit the roof. I've been pretty easygoing for the most part with this because I really like him and think he's worth it. But I feel that he never ever makes time for me. So I told him I saw no point in continuing this relationship and he obviously wasn't that into me. He returned that family comes first and if I can't understand that "have fun." I then accused him of having another girlfriend. This wasn't coming out of left field, mind you...I was in another relationship last year with similar issues and that turned out to be the problem. Well, he blew up at me, saying he doesn't play games and I'm the only one he's been with and it's good to finally see the "real me." (He's made remarks about how I'm the sweetest girl he's ever dated, I'm practically like a saint). I replied that the real me had been planning on spending my bonus buying him the I-Phone he's been eyeing but couldn't afford, just because I understood he was spending every cent on his children and wanted him to get something he wanted for Christmas for a change. He didn't reply.
That was Tuesday. I tried sending him a text today...the smiley face emotion crying....and he didn't respond. I don't know what to think. My friends all say I don't deserve to be treated like this and he's entirely in the wrong. Part of me thinks he's not that into me. But I posted this situation on another internet forum for objectivity and the responders all I said I was the one in the wrong. So I'm at a crossroads as to what to do. Part of me thinks I should just let it lie. If he's into me at all, he'll be in touch with me. The other part of me thinks I should give it a few days (wait until he's back from his stupid guy's weekend with his nephew and brother-in-law) and then tell him I'm sorry and I was wrong. I don't know. I really love him and I don't want to lose him. By the same token, I don't want to be in denial and waste time on a relationship where the guy isn't into me.