We continued this up until about a week and a half ago. Suddenly, it seemed as though she started being distant. I've hung with her only twice and both of those were very brief. There has been no sex, and I haven't stayed the night.
She has said in a conversation about our relationship that she didn't want to be anybody's girlfriend, but I don't understand why she would stop returning calls or texting me regularly. We always had a good time and had a girlfriend/boyfriend type relationship, without bringing up dating. Something has changed and I can't figure out what it is, although I have a couple ideas.
What should I do? I really would like her to be part of my life. I don't know if I should go no contact until time runs it's course and do my own thing, or whether I should be more aggressive and take action. Any advice?