We've been through a very rocky 2 years...and prior to this incedent...we'd just had a conversation about How I needed him to stop lying to me, so I could trust him again. He told me he would stop lying...then BLAM...I find this out. So being utterly crushed and angry...I asked him to take his clothes and go stay somewhere for the weekend while I try and figure out my feelings. So what does he do?? He doesn't bother to pick up his things...and decides to spend the night drinking at "this place" he's been lying to me about in the first place. The next day he comes back home asking me to let him back in....but I said no...and asked him where he'd stayed last night. He LIED TO ME AGAIN...saying that he slept in his truck...and turned off his cell to avoid me calling him and fighting. Well as fate would have it....cousins wife calls me again and informs me that he spent the night there with their 20 yr old female friend. When I found out about this I again confronted him...all he kept saying was nothing happened. I asked him what the sleeping arrangements were seeing as there's only one bedroom...that belonged to his cousin and his wife. He said he slept on the couch and has no Idea where the other young lady slept. The cousin's wife also informed me that the next morning after my husband left...the 20 year old girl confided in her that nothing happened because she was on her period!!! WTF is that supposed to mean??? Why would she say something like that if nothing had ever happened before?
Men readers.....Does this sound like the typical behaviour of a cheater??
Women readers.....Am I wrong for feeling EXTREEMLY pissed off and contimplating ending this marriage??
I've continued trying to talk to him about this....but he keeps claiming his innocence and can't even accept/understand why I would be feeling angry and hurt. It's been 2 weeks since the incident...and still his done or said nothing to express remorse or to nurse the emotional wounds he has inflicted on me
ANY ADVICE PLEASE!!!