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    I am wondering what is the longest you went without contact from your bf/gf? My bf is going to the Philippines to help with disaster relief with is amazing and I am so proud of him. I am just worried about him and we don't have any way of contacting each other since there is no service where he will be.

    I don't want to seem overly needy but I already miss him and he just left today, I think it's more the fact he will be in a bit of a dangerous situation and I can't know if he is okay or not. From emotional trauma to physical, I trust he can handle it but I know he can get some ptsd, he got some when he was working in pediatric care. I was able to talk to him on the phone since we were long distance at the time to help him feel better.

    I will be going 10 days without anything and it sucks but I can handle it. I was wondering what was the longest you all went without contact..not a fight or anything just where they need to be somewhere and you can't call them?

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    I'd have to say I've never actually been in this situation, in the 8.5 years we've been together. I've been able to talk to her (even if it's something as small as a good night text) every day since we got together.
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    • #3
      Re: Longest time with no contact?

      Three weeks without any contact when i was married.
      Last edited by Seventh Door; November 16th, 2013, 03:39 AM.

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      • #4
        Re: Longest time with no contact?

        Originally posted by OvershareDude View Post
        I'd have to say I've never actually been in this situation, in the 8.5 years we've been together. I've been able to talk to her (even if it's something as small as a good night text) every day since we got together.
        I would say lucky but I know some people like time away from there spouse..seriously though I can't sleep. I have never had to go more then a day without hearing from him. I hate this xD It doesn't help I am kind of scared of the dark so I'm cuddling my stuffed animals haha I feel like a little kid.

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        • #5
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          Occasionally we spend the night apart (like tonight, she's gone out to dinner then she'll stay at her parents). I hug the pillow to go to sleep and I'm 30, so don't feel bad
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          • #6
            Re: Longest time with no contact?

            I once had no contact with an ex-girlfriend (my girlfriend at the time) for two weeks. This was different from your situation though, because we lived 25 minutes apart, and I stopped contacting her to see if she cared to contact me. Needless to say, we were no longer together after that time.

            Not being able to contact a loved one is indeed very difficult, but it can also show you how much you mean to each other. Being apart can actually strengthen a relationship. If you keep that in mind, that should help you cope with this time apart. He'll be contacting you soon and you'll be back together quicker than you think.

            It sounds like this guy is a winner too! Congratulations
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            • #7
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              Thanks, he is surely a winner.

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              • #8
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                The longest was 3 days. But that's because my boyfriend (at that time) was busy boinking a fry cook.

                So yeah, your guy is way better.
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                • #9
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                  Mine has been 3 glorious years.

                  Fucking Shit Princess!!!!
                  There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity. People who do not experience self-love have little or no capacity to love others.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Longest time with no contact?

                    Originally posted by Dasmi View Post
                    The longest was 3 days. But that's because my boyfriend (at that time) was busy boinking a fry cook.

                    So yeah, your guy is way better.
                    lmao noo, I am sure your guy is good at cooking...nevermind mine is better jk! x)

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                    • #11
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                      Hah, that was my ex! Current boyfriend is much better than my ex but we've never been out of touch for even a day so the only thing I could think of was the chubby chaser. =/
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                      • #12
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                        oh okay, you guys are lucky...this honestly sucks. I got a call from him today though, he is at a hotel and then tomorrow leaving for the Philippines. Probably the last time I will talk to him though, it was a surprise though.

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                        • #13
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                          Nice! Now I guess it's time to watch everything there is on Netflix for this week or two
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                          • #14
                            Re: Longest time with no contact?

                            Originally posted by oxytocinbite View Post
                            I am wondering what is the longest you went without contact from your bf/gf? My bf is going to the Philippines to help with disaster relief with is amazing and I am so proud of him. I am just worried about him and we don't have any way of contacting each other since there is no service where he will be.

                            I don't want to seem overly needy but I already miss him and he just left today, I think it's more the fact he will be in a bit of a dangerous situation and I can't know if he is okay or not. From emotional trauma to physical, I trust he can handle it but I know he can get some ptsd, he got some when he was working in pediatric care. I was able to talk to him on the phone since we were long distance at the time to help him feel better.

                            I will be going 10 days without anything and it sucks but I can handle it. I was wondering what was the longest you all went without contact..not a fight or anything just where they need to be somewhere and you can't call them?
                            I went for three and a half years with only about two hours of contact with my husband, It was due to the needs of the Navy, He was on Submarines, Really hard way to endure relationship.

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                            • #15
                              Re: Longest time with no contact?

                              Originally posted by oxytocinbite View Post
                              I am wondering what is the longest you went without contact from your bf/gf? My bf is going to the Philippines to help with disaster relief with is amazing and I am so proud of him. I am just worried about him and we don't have any way of contacting each other since there is no service where he will be.

                              I don't want to seem overly needy but I already miss him and he just left today, I think it's more the fact he will be in a bit of a dangerous situation and I can't know if he is okay or not. From emotional trauma to physical, I trust he can handle it but I know he can get some ptsd, he got some when he was working in pediatric care. I was able to talk to him on the phone since we were long distance at the time to help him feel better.

                              I will be going 10 days without anything and it sucks but I can handle it. I was wondering what was the longest you all went without contact..not a fight or anything just where they need to be somewhere and you can't call them?
                              Traumatized from taking care of kids????????
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