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Unread March 27th, 2007, 03:56 PM   #1
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Default masturbation. guy vs. gal

so, what's the difference b/w guys and gals in how they approach IT?

What's your style for getting your rocks nicely off?

for guys i think it is a stress relief and can be done quickly if necessary or as a way of cashing in on the "Spank bank" - that mental place where a girl from our day (or last year) may be stored.

for women, i think it's sometimes "easier" than sex and can be a safe way to explore fantasies....

my GF kept a vibrator at bedside. but like many women, she says as she matured, she got more "into it" ...

so, what gets you going and do you think women are different than men in this area? (and how might it help or hurt your sex life?)
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Unread March 27th, 2007, 05:01 PM   #2
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From my experience, which is almost none, this is what I've noticed: girls do it more than guys, take longer and aren't open about it, and guys do it quicker, less than girls, and are a little bit more open about it.

Of course, this is just what I seem to be noticing. It's possible that guys do it way more since alot of them do it quickly and how open somebody is about it depends on the person.
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Unread March 27th, 2007, 09:15 PM   #3
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uh... guys do it more, quicker and are more open about (because it's much more socially accepted). I believe that girls often take much longer because they have to be mentally prepared to orgasm. Guys tend to be more visual while girls tend to be more intuitive.. getting something like that going is much more difficult that looking at porn.
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Unread March 28th, 2007, 12:52 AM   #4
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

I must be the small percentage of girls who are definitely visual more than anything else; not to say that I enjoy watching porn by any means.

Girls definitely CAN do it less often than guys, but its easier and faster to do it yourself. Id enjoy it much more with a partner, but its definitely easier and faster (in my experiences).
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Unread March 28th, 2007, 01:14 AM   #5
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Masturbation...wow haven't done that in a while...

In fact I can't remember the last time I did...

I guess that's what happens when you live with the boyfriend and are having issues in the bedroom. >.<

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P.S. I've never really been big on masturbating since I've not really had the driving urge to take part in it. Anytime I've really done it its been in shower and usually with the showerhead. Sometimes I'll have used my vibrator in bed but not very often.

Usually also have to have story too. Something to read. Something that I can imagine but not see. Or if I'm watching something it has to be animated. I just can't do it to real porn. Its not..."imaginative" enough. (Not as far as positions go but the whole "well this isn't real" part of it.)
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Unread April 2nd, 2007, 02:53 PM   #6
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

Maybe, it’s just me, that the primary reason to masturbate is to release sexual tension. The fact most women I knew, seem to have the innate ability to ration out sex (or seem to have more self-control than men), lead me to believe that most women usually don’t the urge as men do, to masturbate. However, then I was blown away to learn some females who were saving themselves also fly solo.

Yeah, when I was younger, I never thought much it. Like, what the heck is there to learn about getting your “Rocks off?” (It came to me so naturally, like right after puberty.) Then I had this girlfriend, who told me, she didn’t learn how to pleasure herself, until after she became an adult. I just question to myself, why the heck did she have the need brag to me about how good she was at it?
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Unread April 2nd, 2007, 03:02 PM   #7
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

A lot of women talk about MB like a luxurious proud achievement:

"It was soo good." OR "I had the best fantasy..." OR "I did it after you left and it was a great one..." I'm lost on that too. I don't do that. It's another difference have not sorted out 100% yet :-)

It throws me off sometimes too.
For a guy, it's like, I gotta do this cause my loins are throbbing and I need some sleep :-)
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Unread April 2nd, 2007, 08:59 PM   #8
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

My friends and I don't go into detail about our masturbating, but it works into conversation ("yeah im gonna go home, do some laundry, masturbate, work on my presentation, and then i'll see you at the bar") We're all pretty open in the fact that we admit we do it.
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Unread April 2nd, 2007, 09:42 PM   #9
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

WOW!
No, guys I know do not do that....
Hmmm, why is THAT??

[u]Same reason straight women hook-up even with straight - women share all bodily things ...??[/U]

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Unread April 3rd, 2007, 12:33 AM   #10
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

"Yeah I'm gonna jiz all over my wall see ya later" vs silence

Girls actually do it less than guys lol I know because I was reading about it one time. They did studies a lot of girls do it only once a month or 2-4 times a month while guys usually do it once a day or once every couple of days.

Us guys do it because it's a great feeling. I honestly don't know why girls do it other than fantasies. I'm sure it's because of the feeling as well.
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Unread April 3rd, 2007, 05:11 AM   #11
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

Takes the edge off the day, and eases some tension. A guy would be a fool not to want feel relieved.
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Unread April 3rd, 2007, 09:08 AM   #12
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Default Re: masturbation. guy vs. gal

well, women...when and why?

do you see a guy at work and head home?
does it relieve tension?
is it for time to think about things you can only imagine?
is it preferred to sex sometimes?
how often?
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