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Unread January 7th, 2007, 04:55 PM   #1
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Ladies....if your man asked you to wear some sexy heels during sex would you do it?? Have you been asked this before? Do you think its weird?

Have you ever been with a man who had a foot/high heel fetish? Apparently its quite common with men. I know, cause i'm one of 'em.

I've asked almost every woman I've had a relationship with to do this in bed and few were enthusiastic about it. Many flat out refused. Some thought it was kinky. But i'd estimate only about 10% complied.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:02 PM   #2
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Personally I have never done it. But I'm not against the idea. I think it's sexy as hell. I don't find it weird at all.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:02 PM   #3
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I'd most certainly do it, but no I haven't been asked to.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:04 PM   #4
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Default Re: Ladies...would you wear high heels during sex?

Sure I'd do it, but I've never been asked. It's more of a preparation knowing-sex-is-on-the-agenda-tonight thing, and I've not had much other than, um, spontaneous sexual encounters lately.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:09 PM   #5
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that weird that you ladies haven't been asked since its common in porn....and you know how dudes love porn. some of the women i asked to do it had also been asked before. theres nothing sexier than a naked woman in nothing but heels, and maybe garter stockings... :icon_evil
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:17 PM   #6
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I've never seen non-fetish porn with a woman wearing high heels during the sex act, and seeing as I've never been with a man who watched fetish or BDSM pornography before meeting me they haven't had any such ideas. Honestly, I don't think my husband knew what suspenders and stockings were until we were dating and a hand traveled up a thigh to realize "there's a big hole in these pantyhose".
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:31 PM   #7
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I've never seen non-fetish porn with a woman wearing high heels during the sex act,
women wear heels during the sex act in the majority of porn, regardless of the genre. in fetish porn they may be wearing heels 100% and in normal porn it may be 60% of the time. you obviously haven't watched much of it
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:44 PM   #8
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women wear heels during the sex act in the majority of porn, regardless of the genre. in fetish porn they may be wearing heels 100% and in normal porn it may be 60% of the time. you obviously haven't watched much of it
"Normal" porn? Exactly what is "normal" porn? All non-fetishistic porn? Softcore? Hardcore? Extra low budget get a girl off the street and have her masturbate in a car while filming? "High" budget with a storyline and props? Anglophone porn? South American porn? German porn? Asian porn? Eastern European porn? Heterosexual porn? Bisexual porn? Homosexual porn? Victorian? 1920's? 1930's? 2000's?

Maybe you're just attracted to a particular type of porn where women don't remove their shoes as frequently as in the types of porn I'm attracted to.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 05:46 PM   #9
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I don't see what the problem would be personally. It's not like they're asking very much. It's just a pair of heels. I did date a guy with a foot fetish a long time ago and things ended before it got too serious. . . but I learned that I am definitely NOT a foot person. I don't think there's anything wrong with it -- just not my thing.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 08:11 PM   #10
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Default Re: Ladies...would you wear high heels during sex?

Being a guy, I probably have no frame of reference for this, but I think it would depend on the girl and her regular shoe-wearing habits. Some girls are really into shoes, and wear heels on a regular basis, almost everywhere - these girls would probably be much more receptive to this sort of thing.
Some girls hate heels and wear flats for everything except special occasions - these girls will probably be less likely to comply with your request, because you're asking them to do something they're not comfortable with even when clothed; in this case, they're turning you down not because they think you're a crazy pervert, but because heels probably just make them feel awkward.

Frankly, I've never understood the shoes during sex thing, and even find it to be kind of a turn-off - to me, they just seem out of place when the girl is completely naked otherwise.
I find heels much more attractive when they're part of a good outfit, but on they're own, they do nothing for me.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 08:18 PM   #11
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Being a guy, I probably have no frame of reference for this, but I think it would depend on the girl and her regular shoe-wearing habits. Some girls are really into shoes, and wear heels on a regular basis, almost everywhere - these girls would probably be much more receptive to this sort of thing.
Some girls hate heels and wear flats for everything except special occasions - these girls will probably be less likely to comply with your request, because you're asking them to do something they're not comfortable with even when clothed;
actually you're wrong CO.....in my experience the girls who wear heels a lot are the least likely to wear them in the sack mainly cause they want a break. I've found that the girls who don't wear heels that much will be more likely to wear them in the sack. Remember that heels aren't all too comfortable to wear all the time.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 08:35 PM   #12
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Default Re: Ladies...would you wear high heels during sex?

ya know... I like to wrap my legs aroun a guy and use my heels on his butt to push him in further, so he PROBABLY wouldn't appreciate having stilettoes shoved into his backside. lol.
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 09:07 PM   #13
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ya know... I like to wrap my legs aroun a guy and use my heels on his butt to push him in further, so he PROBABLY wouldn't appreciate having stilettoes shoved into his backside. lol.
well you could wear sling-back wedges...
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Unread January 7th, 2007, 09:09 PM   #14
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Default Re: Ladies...would you wear high heels during sex?

Yes, I've been asked (by 2 guys), and yes, I did it. I've never been with a guy who had a foot fetish, though. Never really understood what that was all about, but hey, to each his own. I have my fetishes that most people wouldn't understand, either. These guys that asked me to do it just thought it looked hot, that's all. It was fine once in a while, but it really cramped my style...have you ever tried standing and moving around on a bed with high heels? They're hard enough to stay stable on on solid ground! And the covers/sheets constanly getting caught in the heels... But if you're not into switching positions often and what not, then I suppose it would be hot looking.
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Unread January 8th, 2007, 12:32 AM   #15
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Default Re: Ladies...would you wear high heels during sex?

I'm with kuju - I'd be worried about hurting my guy. Not only that, but I'd be worried about hurting MY SHOES. Sex gets rowdy. I don't know what I'd do if I scratched the leather, or broke a heel.

Then again, I guess I could buy some cheapies, and he could suck it up and take the pain like a man.
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Unread January 8th, 2007, 12:38 AM   #16
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actually you're wrong CO.....in my experience the girls who wear heels a lot are the least likely to wear them in the sack mainly cause they want a break. I've found that the girls who don't wear heels that much will be more likely to wear them in the sack. Remember that heels aren't all too comfortable to wear all the time.
Do you wear stilettos a lot, then?

Women who complain about heels, are usually the ones who never wear them, or when they wear them don't usually spend the money to get the right size and quality shoe. A quality shoe is a quality shoe (and that doesn't necessarily mean a 'designer' shoe) and will fit as such. A cheap heel just hurts a lot more than a cheap pair of worn in tennis shoes. And, of course, we're taught by our 60's and 70's generations of mothers that high heels are uncomfortable occasion shoes, because that was the propaganda of the day (whereas the generation earlier were 'liberated' from chunky flat victorian boots by the slim and feminine heel).
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alphamale - you're doing it again.

just because your 'experience' with women tells you one thing does NOT make someone else's experience or opinions WRONG.
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Default Re: Ladies...would you wear high heels during sex?

I've never been asked to do it, but I've done it because I knew the guy really loved these tall heeled boots I own. some positions were a little awkward with them on, but overall, it was kinda fun.


if asked though, i'd do it.
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Unread January 8th, 2007, 03:56 PM   #19
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hmmm....interesting, the responses from many females here differ from the responses I get in real life.
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I've never been asked, but I wouldn't have a problem with if it someone wanted me to. Granted, that could be somewhat difficult as the closest thing to heels I own is chunky goth boots...
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