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Unread June 22nd, 2012, 04:01 PM   #1
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Default Guys, how long did back surgery affect your sex life

After having a multi level neck fusion, there are literally physical limits the Dr. suggests post operation.
Although I am young at 34, I had to have surgery for some bulging discs.
Anyone who has had back surgery knows, Dr recommends a 5 lbs weight limit up to approx 1 month, then "try" 10-20 lbs and see how that feels, ect.
Well, we all know that most sex acts require more then 5 lbs, and even 10-20 lbs of effort.
There are positions that could take strain off, such as guy on bottom, or the couple spooning.

But for any guy who had back surgery, how long was it before you went back to sex positions that don't cause muscle or neck pain/hack pain from post operation recovery?

FYI, I am at 6 weeks, and "most" sex positions caused me some level of pain.
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Unread June 25th, 2012, 01:45 AM   #2
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Default Re: Guys, how long did back surgery affect your sex life

So, NO ONE has had back surgery?
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Unread June 25th, 2012, 08:26 PM   #3
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Default Re: Guys, how long did back surgery affect your sex life

You might want to post your question on a forum about surgeries/back surgery. You'll probably get responses from people who have experienced the same.
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Default Re: Guys, how long did back surgery affect your sex life

Yeh, I can't say that in the 7 years I've been about I've seen anyone mention back surgery.

Sorry mate, we're probably not the avenue to answer this specific question.

What about mutual masturbation or oral sex?
I'd seriously be thinking about what permanent damage you could do from straining yourself too soon.
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