Turning your man on via the anus, thoughts and experiences please - Page 2

Deidre · July 28th, 2010, 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Rogue4Rent

I haven't pissed off anyone except morons.

Ah, the good ol' no true Scotsman fallacy.

Rogue4Rent · July 28th, 2010, 07:34 AM

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Me: Male Admins of forums are assholes.

Male Admins: I'm a male and I'm not an asshole!

Me: Well, Male Admins who have proven to be he-bitches, are assholes.

How's that for your Hamish Mcdonald-ish thinking?

The Sage · July 28th, 2010, 09:53 PM

ah fuck it.

where's that button?

phasesofthemoon · July 29th, 2010, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by The Sage

ah fuck it.

where's that button?

As was mentioned.. It's located just past the perineum. Sticking a finger into the "button" and massaging simulates the prostate. One doesnt' have to stick a finger into the "button" to stimulate the perineum.. it's right there outside and you can just go right ahead and do.

Taint rocket science.

The Sage · July 29th, 2010, 09:33 PM

you're playing with fire.

rebecca · July 31st, 2010, 10:14 AM

Okay....back to RED CORVETS.....question. My ex shared with me in the 1st year we were together that he enjoyed anal stimulation. I also did not know what that meant. I read up on rubbing and where to touch...but he meant intercourse.... Within 3 years we had 4 dildo's. We talked about and purchased only 1 together. The others he bought on his own and hid, then they showed up when he was in the mood to have me play along. Well, "we" didn't..he did. He told me he had experimented before "down there". Come to find out he was using them on him self when I wasn't around. I thought the 1 was a result of intimate special bonding? Any way, long story short, if he is asking you to do it, most likely he has already done it to him self. It doesn't mean he is gay, but in my case over the course of time I did find things, porn, etc. and letters that indicated he might be willing to experiment with an actual human of the same sex. So.....just be informed. Anal stim. is something both sexes might enjoy, it's subjective. There is definitly a difference between "rubbing" a sensitive area and anal intercourse. Take a step back and observe before you jump in with both feet....you might not like what is on the other side..........

merker · July 31st, 2010, 01:48 PM

well as im male i thought iv give my thoughts... not that i tend to post in the sex part of the forum

An x always wanted to do that... she did rub and lick down there (haha, hope that aint illegal :P) and i did that for her also...

she did want her fingers in there, but 2bh i wouldnt of minded it, however i was more affraid of the embarassment that she would have brown fingers n think "eww".

rebecca · July 31st, 2010, 07:11 PM

What I found with my Ex, is that he very much wanted it, but there was almost also a "shame factor" to it. In the heat of the moment, so many things are possible, it's how you talk and discuss after and in the future that counts. Was it really as enjoyable as you imagined? Yes = keep talking. No = talk, but respect each others feelings.

It was like RED said, his orgasms were wild when he was in the mood for that. But after, there was no romance, he instantly went into defense mode "don't ever use that against me".......... You ARE playing with fire, as well stated. Read back over these threads. Do you see how many mixed emotions and advice your getting? This is a very sensitive subject. I can understand you seeking advice here, I have a lot! But I can honestly tell you woman to woman, if you value the "love" don't jeapordize it for the "lust"........... and use lack of intimate experience as an excuse.

BrianTheBarbarian · August 2nd, 2010, 04:48 PM

I'm just wondering if any of you know of a guy having an orgasm purely from anal stimulation? My friend and I had sex recently(anal sex) and I was the top. We were in normal missionary position, and all of a sudden he said "I'm going to cum." He did. I was really shocked. This was only my second experience with another male. I didn't know that could even happen. I know he didn't touch himself, he just had an orgasm.

nyalex · August 10th, 2010, 10:46 AM

I enjoy it and am not embarrassed about it before or afterwards. Sure I don't go out and advertise that I like when a girl plays with my ass, but that is because of the social stigma, not because I'm ashamed about it. If a girl knows what she's doing, massaging the prostate is fantastic. Maybe your man will enjoy it, maybe not. But I don't think you have to view it as opening up a can of worms. Its not that big of a deal.

phasesofthemoon · August 10th, 2010, 11:01 AM

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I'm just wondering if any of you know of a guy having an orgasm purely from anal stimulation?

Yes.. you were stimulating his prostate gland which made him ejaculate.. whether he actually had an orgasm with his ejaculate ~ only he can tell you.

beautifultrouble · August 11th, 2010, 07:23 AM

My husband enjoys it (but only when hes a bit drunk !!) at the time he's all like yea that feels so good, and then when he wakes up in the morning he's like OMG you did it again didn't you? LMAO

he secretly loves it but I think maybe he feels a bit 'silly/embarrassed' that he enjoyed it so much !

BrianTheBarbarian · August 20th, 2010, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by phasesofthemoon

Yes.. you were stimulating his prostate gland which made him ejaculate.. whether he actually had an orgasm with his ejaculate ~ only he can tell you.

Thanks for the reply. We had sex quite a few times and I accidentally made him do it again. He was definitely having an orgasm, and he said it felt amazing. The next time we had sex, I made purposeful attempt to make him orgasm that way and he did.

As weird as it sounds, it's really a wonderful and emotional feeling.