JohnSmith
March 12th, 2006, 01:33 PM
So it's been a while since ive regularly posted on these boards although i still lurk in the dark from time to time. I generally think I have a good grasp on things, but with nobody to talk to and nowhere else to go, I figured I may as well come back to the place that has helped me out so many times before.
Let me give you a little backstory before I go forward with my question. The girl that I am with now I met via myspace, she found me when she noticed me outside. That being said, she was the girl who lived below me. When we started dating, she was living with her ex boyfriend because he was moving out of state and he was just there for like a week or two. We started dating everything was going great. We dated for a month going out sleeping over etc. etc. We then decided hey lets be exclusive. So two months have gone by.
Now here is where I am. We are still together barely, she says that we are spending to much time together etc. So I give her space. But she promises me things like oh I will see you tonight and then will go get drunk and pass out. The next day I say, thanks for flaking on me last night, and she yells and me and tells me things like why are you smothering me etc etc and that maybe we shouldn't be together. Then i say, well are we breaking up? She says no. So i said okay, and then I ask if I can see her tonight. She says I don't kno and hangs up the phone.
That was today. This thing happens like once every few days, she says she isn't happy so i say then maybe we shouldn't be together. She says maybe im right, but then comes over and we are happy and then its like nothing ever happened.
Im just so tired of this, im tired of her hurting me then blaming me for it. I don't do anything wrong, she wants to go out, im fine with i don't bother her when she is out and i give her the space she wants, but she always plays these games with me...
I dont kno what to do... i love her, but I am sick of being torn apart, what do i say? what do i do? Any advice is very much appriciated
Let me give you a little backstory before I go forward with my question. The girl that I am with now I met via myspace, she found me when she noticed me outside. That being said, she was the girl who lived below me. When we started dating, she was living with her ex boyfriend because he was moving out of state and he was just there for like a week or two. We started dating everything was going great. We dated for a month going out sleeping over etc. etc. We then decided hey lets be exclusive. So two months have gone by.
Now here is where I am. We are still together barely, she says that we are spending to much time together etc. So I give her space. But she promises me things like oh I will see you tonight and then will go get drunk and pass out. The next day I say, thanks for flaking on me last night, and she yells and me and tells me things like why are you smothering me etc etc and that maybe we shouldn't be together. Then i say, well are we breaking up? She says no. So i said okay, and then I ask if I can see her tonight. She says I don't kno and hangs up the phone.
That was today. This thing happens like once every few days, she says she isn't happy so i say then maybe we shouldn't be together. She says maybe im right, but then comes over and we are happy and then its like nothing ever happened.
Im just so tired of this, im tired of her hurting me then blaming me for it. I don't do anything wrong, she wants to go out, im fine with i don't bother her when she is out and i give her the space she wants, but she always plays these games with me...
I dont kno what to do... i love her, but I am sick of being torn apart, what do i say? what do i do? Any advice is very much appriciated