signaling to girls that i want them?

[tearsplash]

I am a 17 year old guy and not only a virgin but I have never gotten any play before--no oral, not even feeling a girl up. Thus as you can imagine I would like to. As unpopular as it is these days to say that you are in it just for the sex, that's what I am doing. I would like at least to know firsthand what it's like. Please don't pass judgment on my motives, because I understand that in most situations they are not the best ones.

For this semester I am at a VERY small (45 people) boarding school where everyone knows each other and we are all each other's best friends. Thus I have plenty of girls (about 25) that I know and could theoretically get with easily. However I have no idea how to proposition them. What would I do to give a girl the signal that I want to go hook up with her?

[JaMiTHy]

get to know um talk to them and ask um questions make urself look interested and say som,ething like "itd be cool to get to know u better or hang out sometime maybe go on a date" do u know of any girls that are interested in u? find out..hope i helped

[hunnybunz]

The power of flirting...

[BigJim]

moving...

[Jebus]

I'm sure they'll all love it if you approach them saying, "I have no interest in you what-so-ever, but I want to experience the pleasures of sex, would you like to go back to my house and give it a whirl?" I'm telling you, that's the ultimate turn-on!

:roll:

[SShore4]

Get a whore :roll:

[Selfesteemboy]

www.sosuave.com read the dj bible in the forums, learn to improve your image, body, attitude, confidence, etc

or if u really want to manipulate girls.. try www.fastseduction.com

i prefer the self-improvement so you attract girls like a magnet rather than memorizing stories that make them wanna have sex and manipulating their subconscious

[hunny]

I am not sure why this was moved to Sex Shop; it could just as easily be in dating, because you could be referring to 'getting with a girl' in the sense of getting to know her, and dating her, etc. This, I assume, is what you intend also, as well as the physical aspect, right? I mean, you surely aren't hoping to go from getting no 'play' at all to hopping into bed with girls from your class,are you?
Nononono! It's simply not the way to go about it. Yes, you're a horny teenage boy, and yes, of course, you want some action. But it doesn't usually work that way.
You want to get to know a girl, or girls, first. You can't just 'summon' them, like girls from a harem, and expect them to come over to your house, fan you, feed you some grapes, and then give you a blow job. You're skipping some important steps here, mainly, the entire dating ritual.Ask a girl out. Talk to her, find out what she's like, what she's interested in. See if there's any attraction there on her part, and if so, then take her to the movies, go for walks, play frisbee or tennis with her. Make her laugh, tell her she's pretty, meet her parents and be nice to her little brother. Kiss her.
Maybe, eventually, you will find that she is interested enough and cares about you enough to do something more with you. Then, and only then, can you proceed with getting a little more physical.
It just seems to me like you are jumping the gun here a little.
If you are not prepared or don't have enough respect for a girl to go through this then do what the other posters suggested.
Buy a whore.
Otherwise, this is basically how it works.

[hunny]

Ah, never mind, this WAS in Sex Shop (where I saw it and responded to it) and then was MOVED to flirting.... I see.
My mistake.
But my advice still remains the same...

[FireFly]

At least his honest, like what can I say... I was stupid enough to go out of a girl basically because she put out, and that became the center of the relationship so when I wasnt getting any I wasnt very happy.

So bad idea for the future people... If ur looking purely for sex, you should be honest and dispite what people say about how its bad morals, it's better than using someone for sex and them having extra feelings 4 u.

Honesty is the best policy.

"I don't want a relationship, I just want you for sex."

"The first thing that attracted me to you was your tight ass and perky breasts. I didn't even realize you had a name."

"How much cash would you need to blow me?"

"Do you give head on the first date?"

"You're ugly but you'll do..."

"I'm sorry but I can't accept your feelings unless you bend over."

Sound stupid? That's because your reasoning is bullshit. Getting physical with a girl comes *after* getting a relationship with her... Getting her for strictly "play" is only reserved for playas. You don't come off to me as one of those, and thus I highly doubt you'll be able to obtain your goal wihtout kissing up in a relationship first.

Normal people want a girl for companionship. People like you will lead empty meaningless young adult lives...

I hope you get what you want, but somehow, with your empty, shallow desires, I doubt you will going about it like you are. And even when you do, you'll realize that you can't keep it going without a relationship... And then you'll realize that personality matters and looks only matter secondarily. You'll realize that hot bitches aren't worth it, and that girls that put out on the first date aren't very trustworthy or worthwhile.

But hey, it's your life.

[FireFly]

Those didn't sound too bad to me...

See how the girl responds if you say them in real life. Make sure to wear a cup.

[FireFly]

The ones with a green face i reken would work

:cool3: "I don't want a relationship, I just want you for sex."

:-x "The first thing that attracted me to you was your tight ass and perky breasts. I didn't even realize you had a name."

:cool3: "How much cash would you need to blow me?"

:-x "Do you give head on the first date?"

:-x "You're ugly but you'll do..."

:cool3: "I'm sorry but I can't accept your feelings unless you bend over."

[EaCS]

The ones with a green face i reken would work

:cool3: "I don't want a relationship, I just want you for sex."

:-x "The first thing that attracted me to you was your tight ass and perky breasts. I didn't even realize you had a name."

:cool3: "How much cash would you need to blow me?"

:-x "Do you give head on the first date?"

:-x "You're ugly but you'll do..."

:cool3: "I'm sorry but I can't accept your feelings unless you bend over."

What kind of women do you talk to?

[FireFly]

lol im just messing around ;)

[Kuky]

Being in it for the physical aspect is fine. Misleading others is not. I agre with the honesty thing. Perhaps not quite as blatant hehe.

[dulcinea]

Go find some porn, jerk off and use your imagination.

I hate to break it to ya, but high school girls usually don't go for strictly sex. They tend to get emotionally attached to anyone that looks at them the right way. They want to be romanced, dammit. :o

Although there are a few out there who would sleep with anything male that walks on two legs. So find one of them and you'd be fine. You can borrow my brother's girlfriend, if you want. *grumbles*

[Mooch]

Why don't you just get a girlfriend? THey're more fun anyway. 8)

[BakeEmAwayToys]

Just wink at them a lot. Every chance you get, wink at them.

Wow that avatar is sexy...

[Shocka]

My thoughts exactly!!!

Anyway, if you're interested in picking up girls at a party or club or other social event, there are courtship signals that both guys and girls send in their body language which can help you pick the girls to approach. See, guys tend to suck at both sending signals and picking the signals that girls send. If you know what you're looking for, then you can hit a club and be leaving on some gorgeous girl's arm in an hour.

Now, I could type a how to guide, but the truth is I'm so upset right now I can't be bothered helping anyone. So go to hell.

[dulcinea]

Now, I could type a how to guide, but the truth is I'm so upset right now I can't be bothered helping anyone. So go to hell.

Eep... everything okay, hon? :o

[*after8*]

hmm.

okay. i've had a bad day already, and posts like this one just, piss me off. its been a long time since a post has gotten to me, congrats.

FIRST OFF. i dont give a SHIT about your "reasons." oh go cry, you're 17 and you havent had sex yet. wahhh. i know people who are 17 and havent had sex, let alone KISSED a guy yet. everyone has their different times.
but thast beyond the point.

you're blatently USING someone for sex. which is okay, for HOOKERS. meaning, you buy someone, you f uck them, you pay them. one nite stands, no commitment. if you want that, either go hire someone, or to a club, find some girl dressed all slutty, and use some lame pickup line and hope that works.

or maybe, yeah, go up to one of those girls at your school, and say "hey i dont really like you, i just wanna fuck you. okay?"
BUT MAKE SHORE YOU TELL HER EXACTLY THAT.

ive known waaay too many people (grrls and guys, but i digress) who have been "screwed over" and hurt by assholes who "just want play" so they trick the girl into sleeping with them. shore, its the girls fault for being stupid and blind, but still. harsh prick move there buddy.
and plus, so you get some girl liking you, she fucks you, and then thats it.. she gets all heartbroken, and tells all her girl friends at YOUR SCHOOL what a "ffucking prick" you are.. and then its all over for you. goodluck getting anything more from any girl at your school after that.

now. i know you're horny and obviously arent thinking properly. but im just sayin, trust me. you're gonna wish your first time was wif your gf, when you eventually get one. because sex is SO MUCH BETTER when its wif someone you love. and plus, lets say you sucker someone in to a one nite stand. then its over. and whats up? you're left CRAVING sex (cose its one of those thigns, that once you do it, you want to do it ALL THE TIME) and you dont even have anyone. sheesh.

ah, i dont care. all im sayin, is girls arent just "toys" for you to fuck around wif. period. and if you do that, you'll get a shitty rep in your OH SO SMALL SCHOOL. keep that in mind. its fine to b impatient. but thats no excuse to become a prick about it.

[BakeEmAwayToys]

Thank you to those who complimented my avatar. It is a photo of me wearing my favourite sunglasses while doing my best oh-i-am-oh-so-shocked facial expression.

And Amen brotha to the above post.

[Shocka]

Nyne, kindly shut up.
its the girls fault for being stupid and blind ..... girls arent just "toys" for you to fuck around wif. period. Oh? And why not? Isn't it their fault for being stupid and blind? Why aren't you off tripping on e instead of parading your wonderfully morose moral standards? Where did my sandwich escape to? Are the penguins back?
You're very hypocritical and I really dislike you. Have an unenjoyable day.

Anyway, I've decided to do a little guide to courtship signs'n'body language anyway. It'll take an hour to type so I'll post it in flirting today or tomorrow. Should be good.

And BakeEmAwayToys, your nick and avatar rock. I love that Simpsons episode.

Nyne, kindly shut up.
its the girls fault for being stupid and blind ..... girls arent just "toys" for you to fuck around wif. period. Oh? And why not? It their fault for being stupid and blind? Why aren't you off tripping on e instead of parading your wonderfully morose moral standards? Where did my sandwich escape to? Are the penguins back?
You're very hypocritical and I really dislike you. Have an unenjoyable day.

Anyway, I've decided to do a little guide to courtship signs'n'body language anyway. It'll take an hour to type so I'll post it in flirting today or tomorrow. Should be good.

And BakeEmAwayToys, your nick and avatar rock. I love that Simpsons episode.

What a random post of aggitation coming from shocka... Bothya speak truth.

[goofball]

what about
"just hold still"

anyway, learn how to flirt, and how to get them alone with you.
that is more than can be learned in one thread, or any thread. it takes real world experience.but...

drinking is good
tickling is good
most kinds of touching are good
watching movies alone in your room is good
telling your friends so they can know to clear out is also good

[*after8*]

Nyne, kindly shut up.
its the girls fault for being stupid and blind ..... girls arent just "toys" for you to fuck around wif. period. Oh? And why not? Isn't it their fault for being stupid and blind? Why aren't you off tripping on e instead of parading your wonderfully morose moral standards?

*sigh*
yeah, take things apart like that and they sound contradictary. nevermind the fact that when used in the context i used them in, they make sence.

but seen as how you didnt quite understand me the first time, i'll explain alittle better...:

some people (i thought) would come in here saying "oh, its the girls fault for being stupid and blind if she doenst realize that this guy is using her for sex."

what i'm saying is alot of girls get too caught up in the whole "love/lust/oh-my-bf-would-never-do-that-to-me" thing to realize they are being used. and this guy shouldn't get involved sexually with some girl who (in the end) will get hurt because she might think hes in it for more than sex.

is THAT alittle easier for you to understand? sheesh.

[Shocka]

It's not that I don't understand you, it's that I do, and you have no idea. :lol:

[PurpleObsidian]

See if you can get a relationship going with one of the girls first...ever heard the phrase "Dont' try to run before you learn to walk" Bit tenuous that, but you might get the idea. I'm not so sure they'd appreciate a quick fumble and then it's over, but it depends on the girl. You'd probably learn more if you did it the 'usual' way.