Initiation

[~*~wilting flower~*~]

How do I INITIATE a kiss? (I'm a girl, if that matters.)

[Sydney123456]

Depends on the moment...

most of the time, the legendary "Lean in and Kiss" works. ;-)

It's usually the matter of having enough guts to initiate. You have nothing to lose...so, just go for it. :)

[zoe]

You can ask him to kiss you. Haha. It works!

[lana]

Start by eye contact... and close in...

or you could do it my style: Grab the guy and spontaneously kiss him... hahahahaha!!

[Raskal]

You can ask him to kiss you. Haha. It works!


really...it does!! :D :D

but just wrap your arms around him and look into his eyes and jsut lean and kiss! Good luck! :D :D

[DarkSeductress]

I don't really know what kind of situation you'd be in but for me and my guy we're already so comfortable with each other that it's already second nature for me to initiate a kiss and he of course being the guy never really minds (unless of course it's a moment too akward for a kiss). I like to pull on his shirt to pull him towards me then look lustfully into his eyes with a little smile then he usually gets the idea. Then tilt your head a tiny tiny bit and hover about before his face/mouth before you sense the go-ahead, then well, go ahead! :D

[Minimus]

Just go with it, and kiss him! dont think about it so much. If you wanna kiss, look over at him, maybe give him a little smile, and then move in slowly and let your lips touch and you got it! What are you so nervous bout?

[indigold]

Are you talking about with this shy guy in all your posts? MAKE SURE you do it in private! Especially with shy people because they may get embarrassed and end it prematurely... hmm... if you two are out alone then I suggest you go for the goodnight kiss... like, "I've had a really good time tonight. We should do it again, okay?" Give him a hug, pull back and look at his face, and then go for a peck... aim for maybe beside his lips so if he's not ready, he'll just think of it as a peck on the cheek, not that big of a deal... OR if during the date you can't stop thinking about it, say "you know, I really want to kiss you now." Nicely and geniunely, and then check his expression. if it looks sort of bashful-like or happy, then lean on in...
feel free to email me with any other questions!

[skittleknows]

how about the classic, "i just missed your cheek" kiss :wink:

[1Diamond Tiara]

give him the come hither look hehe :) and look into his eyes then at his lips and lean in :)

[pandoragoddess]

i really....have never thought about it. it just sort of happens. like mutually, we both go in for it. happens so blindingly fast (the moment before) that sometimes i don't notice whether or not i initiated or the guy did.

[water nymph]

get all cuddly and then have your face next to his, cheek to cheek, eyes closed. just lightly kiss his cheek, then his mouth. works every time!

[skittleknows]

Here's another way I usually get kissed. I just kind of tease him...ask him if he's ticklish...tickle him then he decides to tickle me...which gives you an excuse to get close. So you have your hands all over that person, and then when you stop tickling each other you're probably wrapped up in their arms, and it just happens.

YES! wrestling with him also works well :P

[rcwant2be]

there's the, "i really wanna kiss you method." it has surprisingly worked for me! in fact, that's how my last kiss was accomplished. i told the guy that i really wanted to kiss him & he was like well, i really wanna kiss you too. of course, i wouldn't try this unless you are pretty sure he wants to kiss you too.

[e LIZ abeth]

just lean in and go for it! :P