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hunnybunz
April 15th, 2002, 09:34 PM
I have this guy friend, and I kind of have feelings for him. Well, in the past few months I have had quite a few dreams where him and I have kissed. Could this be a subconscious thing? Are my dreams trying to tell me something?

rabidcowfromhell
April 15th, 2002, 10:09 PM
yes! your dreams are telling you he is a maniacal killer! stay away from him! actaully no, you obvously really like him, ask him out! and good luck

Sydney123456
April 15th, 2002, 10:13 PM
You wanna kiss him...ta da!

Whether you will admit to us, yourself, or anyone...your dreams reveal you wanna kiss him.

sweet-one
April 15th, 2002, 10:24 PM
K-I-S-S-I-N-G is such a wonderful thing. Yeah, you know you wanna. I've had dreams like that too. Lucky for me, a few have come true. Sorry, didn't mean to make that rhyme. :lol:

Deidre
April 16th, 2002, 01:20 AM
There was a similar thread in Sex Shop. You might want to check it out (http://rf.thedesigneng.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2788).

miz erotika
April 16th, 2002, 02:20 AM
i think it just means you really like him...go for it!!!

indigold
April 20th, 2002, 07:25 PM
I've read a bunch of dream analyses in the past, and no, a dream of kissing a guy friend DOES NOT MEAN that you necessarily like him. It means you may like some of the qualities he posesses and look for that in a boyfriend. Or so dream analysis goes.

SoSweetAngel
April 23rd, 2002, 03:30 PM
Yeah - like indigold said - dreams like that usully don't mean anything. I've dreamt about kissing guys...even when I am completely unattracted to them.

But you already know that you like this guy...so...make move or just ENJOY THE DREAMS!! :)

hunnybunz
April 23rd, 2002, 05:40 PM
I'm just a little confused. In reality, he flirts with me like mad and I return the flirting, but we're friends so I'm thinking I should stay away even though I don't want to...

Placebo
June 5th, 2002, 01:23 AM
I have a friend and we wanted to TRY going out. This was just last week too. We went to a movie and nothing BIG happened. When i got home i called her and said i wanted to go back to friends because it was too weird. It's weird kissing someone that you've known for a few years and they know everything about me. WE're best friends now, but there was almost a fight. So be careful, before you take the risk think about the consequences. I wouldn't try friends with benefits either because emotional attacthments WILL happen. "It's like playing with fire"-Sydney123456

sweet ideas
June 7th, 2002, 04:54 PM
I have a friend and we wanted to TRY going out. This was just last week too. We went to a movie and nothing BIG happened. When i got home i called her and said i wanted to go back to friends because it was too weird. It's weird kissing someone that you've known for a few years and they know everything about me. WE're best friends now, but there was almost a fight. So be careful, before you take the risk think about the consequences. I wouldn't try friends with benefits either because emotional attacthments WILL happen. "It's like playing with fire"-Sydney123456

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Pudding
June 9th, 2002, 07:57 AM
pretty post, sweet ideas!!!

welcome to the forums..



anyway, yes it COULD hav a chance of ruining something great, but it also COULD hav a chance of starting something even better.
theres always a risk whatever u do. whoever u do it with..

u juhst have tomake the right decision at the right time..
good luck tho!

Margarita
June 9th, 2002, 02:36 PM
It all comes down to which you value more: your friendship with him or this (what could be taken as) little crush. By the sounds of it, you don't seem to be seriously interested in this guy..I think you just want to kiss him. I could be wrong, but that's the impression I get.
Dreaming about kissing one of your friends doesn't really mean anything, other than you like their qualities in a boyfriend or just that they're a good friend. Hell, I've kissed my girl friends in dreams, but does that mean I'm going to go ask them out? I would completely ignore your dreams while figuring out if you actually like the guy.
*If* this is more than just a little crush, I would flirt with him to maybe see if he feels the same way..and if everything goes well, then ask him out.

sunfrost
June 9th, 2002, 06:37 PM
Nothing wrong with it, dreamt tonight that i had sex with a girl I imagined... and I even was worried because I forgot to use a condom... Can you imagine, dreaming of forgetting to use a condom after...

Good indoctrinating job of the belgian sexual education lessons I suppose.

So don't worry.

Clive Sparrow
June 9th, 2002, 11:23 PM
someone posted this is something about kissing before, it was about kissing on the forehead, this posted what it meant when the person dreamt about you or something like that. obviously it's not a bad sign, it just means that you really like him if you are dreaming about him, so, I think you should go for it as opposed to waitin!

Truth
June 17th, 2002, 02:10 PM
at least your not having dreams about having sex with your friend, like i am...sheesh, could you imagine what that could mean for me...

eatshit
June 18th, 2002, 11:52 AM
Dreams don't alawys mean what they directly depict, kissing them could be symbolic of something else eg. him having qualities you would like in a boyfriend or maybe your subconscious exploring of the future possibility or maybe even something else... you should think about it because ultimately, its your brain, and your dreams, and you're really the only one who can figure it out! :) perhaps you should also think about how you felt in the dream while you were kissing him as well!

Revolutionary
July 3rd, 2002, 12:49 PM
Dreams usually always have an underlining meaning. For instance you could be having this dream of wanting to kiss him and everything but when you break it down it could be as simple as that you consider him a close friend and care for him in a more than usual manner. But I haven't studied dream interpretation that much and it could be something as simple as wanting to kiss him. Approach it how you would like.

wowzers
July 8th, 2002, 02:49 AM
hmm for me im not worried about messin up friendships... i dont usually consider dating a guy that im not already friends with. thats jus me i guess tho.

but if you dont CONSCIOUSLY like him... no point in worrying... jus wait until/if you do realize that you like him. dont worry about the dream.