BigJim
February 7th, 2002, 11:02 PM
-this topic originally started by LGWEEKEND-
How would I know if I'm fondling my g/f's breastisies right?
would the nipples get bigger?
Would her kissing be more intense?
is it stimulating enuff for a girl?
what would be the next stage? sucking on them? or is that too far ahead?
thanx
Kitty Kat
Remember that there's more to a breast than just it's nipple. Yeah, the nipple is the most sensitive part, but I also like it when my b/f just fondles the whole breast in his hand. You should vary your technique from fondling the breast to just focusing on the nipple so she doesn't get bored or desensitized. Just gently rub the nipple with your fingertips in a circular motion, that feels great. Also go ahead and kiss them, suck on them (gently), lick them, and even nibble (gently) on them. Just remember to keep it interesting... don't just suck on them all nite, or just use your hands. Do one technique for a li'l while, then switch, then switch again. She'll love it, and you'll know it... my nipples get very hard and perky when I'm aroused that way, also the breasts might swell and become slightly larger and rounder if she's really into it.
kuju
It's true, for me it might be more difficult to tell if I'm actually enjoying it when my breasts are fondled, because it's not a sharp kind of pleasure, just a VERY pleasant one. I might just be lying there with my eyes closed smiling. I don't make much noise with that. but otherwise, what Kitty Kat said.
~*Shimmer*~
Yes! Sucking them would definitly be the next step! I love it when my bf sucks them!! The nipples have A LOT of feeling!! DO THAT! She'll love you! It makes mr horney! And most of my friends too so I'm sure it does her too!
blackout
The nipples don't necessarily get bigger for every girl, but they definitely get hard. Her kissing would probably not get more intense.
I've found that sucking on them is a whole lot more pleasureable to the girl. You can tell she is excited by her breathing changing. Don't just suck on them though, lick them/kiss them. Make sure to start out gentle and gradually go faster, etc. You should be able to notice what she likes and doesn't. If you can't tell, ASK! =] that's important.
Good luck!
blackOUT
Matthew
I think when the nipple becomes erect or starts to
switch parts then wait till it starts to go back then slowly bring it back to a hard nipple then just keep playing with them
Kitty Kat
Sorry Matthew, but when the nipple becomes erect/hard, it means that whatever you're doing is working, so keep at it . It'd almost be like a girl fondling your penis and then stopping and moving on to something else when it becomes erect/hard. I'm pretty sure you'd like her to keep at it . But you're right, you shouldn't stick w/ just one technique for too long or the nipple will become desensitized and your girl will become bored. Generally speaking though, if it's hard/erect, it's means she's aroused and feeling good, don't change what you're doing just yet.
The nipples become erect due to muscle contractions during sexual arousal, and the areola (the pigmented area surrounding the nipple) may begin to swell as she continues to grow more aroused. When very highly aroused, the actual breasts themselves will increase in size, usually 20%-25% larger.
sophie
yep...kittykat seems to be an expert in this field...she's just about got it cracked!
Its nice if you play around with the whole breast, cup around, vary it, if you keep on and on at the nipple it gets a little tedious and sometimes sore (but that's only if you spend all day there!). definitely go for sucking. That's kinda cool!
Kez
Men treat breasts as if they were dart boards- always aiming for the centre. That's fine, but don't forget you can score high points elsewhere on the board.
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"Use your whole hand, and focus on the entire breast"
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Cupping and cuddling is especially good. So is lifting, but you never want to push a woman's breasts downwards, this can be painful.
Work on her cleavage too, since women like to think of themselves as having lots of it...
quote:
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"It can be a turn on for her just to look down and think: 'Mmm, that's sexy' "
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Even light bouncing is okay, especially during the heat of the moment. The key word here though is light. Breasts might be rounded and fit nicely in your hands but they're not stress balls.
How would I know if I'm fondling my g/f's breastisies right?
would the nipples get bigger?
Would her kissing be more intense?
is it stimulating enuff for a girl?
what would be the next stage? sucking on them? or is that too far ahead?
thanx
Kitty Kat
Remember that there's more to a breast than just it's nipple. Yeah, the nipple is the most sensitive part, but I also like it when my b/f just fondles the whole breast in his hand. You should vary your technique from fondling the breast to just focusing on the nipple so she doesn't get bored or desensitized. Just gently rub the nipple with your fingertips in a circular motion, that feels great. Also go ahead and kiss them, suck on them (gently), lick them, and even nibble (gently) on them. Just remember to keep it interesting... don't just suck on them all nite, or just use your hands. Do one technique for a li'l while, then switch, then switch again. She'll love it, and you'll know it... my nipples get very hard and perky when I'm aroused that way, also the breasts might swell and become slightly larger and rounder if she's really into it.
kuju
It's true, for me it might be more difficult to tell if I'm actually enjoying it when my breasts are fondled, because it's not a sharp kind of pleasure, just a VERY pleasant one. I might just be lying there with my eyes closed smiling. I don't make much noise with that. but otherwise, what Kitty Kat said.
~*Shimmer*~
Yes! Sucking them would definitly be the next step! I love it when my bf sucks them!! The nipples have A LOT of feeling!! DO THAT! She'll love you! It makes mr horney! And most of my friends too so I'm sure it does her too!
blackout
The nipples don't necessarily get bigger for every girl, but they definitely get hard. Her kissing would probably not get more intense.
I've found that sucking on them is a whole lot more pleasureable to the girl. You can tell she is excited by her breathing changing. Don't just suck on them though, lick them/kiss them. Make sure to start out gentle and gradually go faster, etc. You should be able to notice what she likes and doesn't. If you can't tell, ASK! =] that's important.
Good luck!
blackOUT
Matthew
I think when the nipple becomes erect or starts to
switch parts then wait till it starts to go back then slowly bring it back to a hard nipple then just keep playing with them
Kitty Kat
Sorry Matthew, but when the nipple becomes erect/hard, it means that whatever you're doing is working, so keep at it . It'd almost be like a girl fondling your penis and then stopping and moving on to something else when it becomes erect/hard. I'm pretty sure you'd like her to keep at it . But you're right, you shouldn't stick w/ just one technique for too long or the nipple will become desensitized and your girl will become bored. Generally speaking though, if it's hard/erect, it's means she's aroused and feeling good, don't change what you're doing just yet.
The nipples become erect due to muscle contractions during sexual arousal, and the areola (the pigmented area surrounding the nipple) may begin to swell as she continues to grow more aroused. When very highly aroused, the actual breasts themselves will increase in size, usually 20%-25% larger.
sophie
yep...kittykat seems to be an expert in this field...she's just about got it cracked!
Its nice if you play around with the whole breast, cup around, vary it, if you keep on and on at the nipple it gets a little tedious and sometimes sore (but that's only if you spend all day there!). definitely go for sucking. That's kinda cool!
Kez
Men treat breasts as if they were dart boards- always aiming for the centre. That's fine, but don't forget you can score high points elsewhere on the board.
quote:
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
"Use your whole hand, and focus on the entire breast"
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Cupping and cuddling is especially good. So is lifting, but you never want to push a woman's breasts downwards, this can be painful.
Work on her cleavage too, since women like to think of themselves as having lots of it...
quote:
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
"It can be a turn on for her just to look down and think: 'Mmm, that's sexy' "
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Even light bouncing is okay, especially during the heat of the moment. The key word here though is light. Breasts might be rounded and fit nicely in your hands but they're not stress balls.