BigJim
February 7th, 2002, 10:51 PM
-this topic originally posted by ChrisSwanson-
I've been fingering my g/f for quite some time now, and have learned quite a few things through experimentation... thought I would tell a couple to you.
1) When you start out, don't move your hand straight to her crotch. Move it SLOWLY all over her body, especially her lower stomach, and inner legs.
2) Lightly touch her pussy, and tease her a bit before moving your finger in. I've found that this gets her extrememly wet, which will help later .
3) When she starts to press up against your hand, go ahead and insert your finger between the lips, and find the clit.
4) Once you've found it, move furthur down, and get your finger lubbed with her juices, and move your finger back up to rub the clit, this makes it alot easier for you AND the girl .
5) Concentrate on the clit if your g/f is clit-sensitive, my g/f enjoys penetration more, and cannot climax from her clit being rubbed, alhough it is pleasurable.
6) Switch to where your thumb is pleasuring the clit, and move your middle finger down to the vagina, and run your finger around the opening, before slowly inserting it.
7) Move in and out lightly while rubbing the clit with your thumb; then, after a couple minutes of this, leave your finger in her without moving it, while you continue to rub her clit.
8) After 10 seconds of this, move your middle finger around in circles HARD as you pull out and go back in, slowing on the clit rubbing, to concentrate on the finger in the vagina.
9) About this time, I like to start in hard, going deep for the g-spot, which is located a little to the right (for her) or the left (for me) of the cyrvex (sp?).
10)When you find the g-spot, start using the "come here" motion with your finger, pressing hard against the roof of the cavity, and moving faster.
11) I've found that by placing my free hand over my g/f's lower stomach (about where the g-spot is that you're stroking below), and pressing with every stroke I give her, that the g-spot is given a FULL amount of pleasure, and she will orgasm within seconds.
Haha... I hope all of this helped, of course, I also like to kiss and lick my g/f's stomache and inner leg while doing all of this
Girls, I'd like your opinion and input on these techniques... do you agree? Can you give me additional tips? I appreciate it !!!
Amabel
Perfect! If you want to drive her even more crazy you could try bringing her so very close to the edge and then backing off (caress her stomach or inner thighs). She'll be wiggling and squirming to get you to touch her, then do, but then back off again when she's near the edge. This teasing drives me nuts (and I can't get enough of it) and turns mild mannered innocent me to a girl begging for more. Finish her off when she can't stand it any longer .
Maximus
Nice..................................
Rainne
WoW, im pressive; a guy who pays attention to details ( and actually remebers them later LoL) Great explaination, itll probably help alot of people out!
OrangeChica308
Sounds good...... *looks for a guy to email this to. Wants him to get hints*...
*reminder:add *sLuRp* to the end of his email
fowlyetti
do behave..
some people!!
reject
*writes down suggestions*
if you can figure it out, I can figure it out. ..though I'd prefer to just go down on her.
morganlh85
gee...i should send this to my bf maybe thats a little too blunt though hehe.
Scorpio
That all sounds really good actually, I'm impressed to see a guy of whom is interested in pleasuring the other half of the relationship. Believe it or not, one of my guy friends won't even CONSIDER going down on/fingering a girl, because he believes that he's the one who has to act gentlemanly, and the one who has to pay for things, so sexual favors are expected. To me, it sounds like he's better suited to hookers, but regardless...
Anyway, yeah, nice suggestions, your gf sounds like a lucky gal.
goddess33
wowsers,maybe my boyfriend should be the 1 reading this
Love_Goddess
PERFECT Chris!!!!.......
ChrisSwanson
Yeah, of course you would say it's perfect LG... ur my g/f
kuju
sounds really good. Definitely going to be one I recommend the next twenty times "How do I finger my g/f" comes up.
one to add: concentrate on the clit and the utside regions of the vagina. work your fingers near the opening, but don't go inside. This is absolute torture (good torture) and then when you see her getting really put in as many fingers as possible, (depending on the wetness there) and push in and out, but try to get DEEP.
Love_Goddess
quote:
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originally posted by ChrisSwanson
Yeah, of course you would say it's perfect LG... ur my g/f
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yep!
Jasmyne
I think taht you don't need any other suggestion... you're doing really well!!! I'd like a guy to do that...
Know that you're good at fingerring start concertrate on eating-up... Cause a lot of girl (like me) prefer that to fingering... no matter how well the guy is doing it...
I've been fingering my g/f for quite some time now, and have learned quite a few things through experimentation... thought I would tell a couple to you.
1) When you start out, don't move your hand straight to her crotch. Move it SLOWLY all over her body, especially her lower stomach, and inner legs.
2) Lightly touch her pussy, and tease her a bit before moving your finger in. I've found that this gets her extrememly wet, which will help later .
3) When she starts to press up against your hand, go ahead and insert your finger between the lips, and find the clit.
4) Once you've found it, move furthur down, and get your finger lubbed with her juices, and move your finger back up to rub the clit, this makes it alot easier for you AND the girl .
5) Concentrate on the clit if your g/f is clit-sensitive, my g/f enjoys penetration more, and cannot climax from her clit being rubbed, alhough it is pleasurable.
6) Switch to where your thumb is pleasuring the clit, and move your middle finger down to the vagina, and run your finger around the opening, before slowly inserting it.
7) Move in and out lightly while rubbing the clit with your thumb; then, after a couple minutes of this, leave your finger in her without moving it, while you continue to rub her clit.
8) After 10 seconds of this, move your middle finger around in circles HARD as you pull out and go back in, slowing on the clit rubbing, to concentrate on the finger in the vagina.
9) About this time, I like to start in hard, going deep for the g-spot, which is located a little to the right (for her) or the left (for me) of the cyrvex (sp?).
10)When you find the g-spot, start using the "come here" motion with your finger, pressing hard against the roof of the cavity, and moving faster.
11) I've found that by placing my free hand over my g/f's lower stomach (about where the g-spot is that you're stroking below), and pressing with every stroke I give her, that the g-spot is given a FULL amount of pleasure, and she will orgasm within seconds.
Haha... I hope all of this helped, of course, I also like to kiss and lick my g/f's stomache and inner leg while doing all of this
Girls, I'd like your opinion and input on these techniques... do you agree? Can you give me additional tips? I appreciate it !!!
Amabel
Perfect! If you want to drive her even more crazy you could try bringing her so very close to the edge and then backing off (caress her stomach or inner thighs). She'll be wiggling and squirming to get you to touch her, then do, but then back off again when she's near the edge. This teasing drives me nuts (and I can't get enough of it) and turns mild mannered innocent me to a girl begging for more. Finish her off when she can't stand it any longer .
Maximus
Nice..................................
Rainne
WoW, im pressive; a guy who pays attention to details ( and actually remebers them later LoL) Great explaination, itll probably help alot of people out!
OrangeChica308
Sounds good...... *looks for a guy to email this to. Wants him to get hints*...
*reminder:add *sLuRp* to the end of his email
fowlyetti
do behave..
some people!!
reject
*writes down suggestions*
if you can figure it out, I can figure it out. ..though I'd prefer to just go down on her.
morganlh85
gee...i should send this to my bf maybe thats a little too blunt though hehe.
Scorpio
That all sounds really good actually, I'm impressed to see a guy of whom is interested in pleasuring the other half of the relationship. Believe it or not, one of my guy friends won't even CONSIDER going down on/fingering a girl, because he believes that he's the one who has to act gentlemanly, and the one who has to pay for things, so sexual favors are expected. To me, it sounds like he's better suited to hookers, but regardless...
Anyway, yeah, nice suggestions, your gf sounds like a lucky gal.
goddess33
wowsers,maybe my boyfriend should be the 1 reading this
Love_Goddess
PERFECT Chris!!!!.......
ChrisSwanson
Yeah, of course you would say it's perfect LG... ur my g/f
kuju
sounds really good. Definitely going to be one I recommend the next twenty times "How do I finger my g/f" comes up.
one to add: concentrate on the clit and the utside regions of the vagina. work your fingers near the opening, but don't go inside. This is absolute torture (good torture) and then when you see her getting really put in as many fingers as possible, (depending on the wetness there) and push in and out, but try to get DEEP.
Love_Goddess
quote:
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
originally posted by ChrisSwanson
Yeah, of course you would say it's perfect LG... ur my g/f
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
yep!
Jasmyne
I think taht you don't need any other suggestion... you're doing really well!!! I'd like a guy to do that...
Know that you're good at fingerring start concertrate on eating-up... Cause a lot of girl (like me) prefer that to fingering... no matter how well the guy is doing it...