BigJim
February 7th, 2002, 10:46 PM
-this topic originally posted by Kitty Kat-
Ok, just curious, I have a question for the guys and the gals out there...
Guys, how do you feel about fooling around or having sex with a girl during her period? Is that eeeewww gross!? or you'd think about giving it a try? or you already have (would you do it again)?
Girls, how do YOU feel about fooling around or having sex during your period? Is that totally off-limits? not sure? you'd give it a try? or you already have (how did it go, what was your guy's reaction)?
sweetlittlegirl
I would never have sex or fool around a lot during my time of the month. But thats just my opinion. If you do--remember to have plenty of towls on hand.
moonangel
weeeell, every time it's "that time of the month" I keep my boyfriend's hands and other body parts strictly above my waist. For his own sake.
Then one night he had snuck over and we were in bed, and he went to remove my pants and I said, "It's 'that time.'" and he said, "That's OK," and kept going. I kept stalling, "Are you sure?" He was sure. So we did it (btw, this was in complete darkness).
So he got home that morning and he found blood all over him. When he told me later I felt so yuck, i thought it was so sick. He didn't seem to mind though, strangely. He had said before that he doesn't mind the mess. I don't know whether it'll happen again though.
Whoops sorry this is long
chemicalized
Well I don't even like having my boy touch me at all when I have mine, he always tries to grab my ass or something, but my friend has come really close to having her guy mess with her down there during "that time" and she said it was not fun, she was nervous for him to get grossed out. As for me, no way I wouldn't let him touch me down there, I don't think having sex during that time would be too fun, but then again I don't know about others. I'm sure if you be sure to keep it as clean as you can it's alright. Sorry for my stupid reply!
Psyce
I don't think it is gross neither does my boyfriend. The first time we had sex during my period I didnt mind. The only thind i was worried about was if he would get grossed out. We talked about it and he said why should I be embarrased about it every girl has one. I used to think it was gross to until i tried it But now I think why should we miss out on sex once a month when a period is not gross its natural. Us girls are going to have one every month for the next 30 some years thats 360 periods 360 weeks!
Dolemite
Psyce you and your boyfriend are sick, doing that **** at that time of the month, I can't believe you're into bloodsports. I was told about a guy who walked into a takeout one night and everyone thought he'd been in a fight, but he'd just given his girlfriend oral sex and she didn't tell him it was 'that time of the month'. Hell knows how he didn't taste the difference.
sunnyjade
Well, I have a friend who did it once, and the few people that she told thought it was absolutely gross. Everyone thought it was unsanitary and that she was really desperate and her boyfriend was really horny. Not only that, but I mentioned that Trina song, "Da baddest bitch" where she talks about making the guy "eat it with her period on" to my boyfriend fooling around and he was really grossed out. I would be, too, I'd never do it.
kuju
Well, I've done it twice. Once on a fairly heavy period, and we stopped fairly quickly simply because it wasn't good for me at ALL. My boyfriend doesn't mind the blood though. I mind it more. I asked him, "Don't you feel weird having blood on your penis?" and he said he didn't mind.
The other time was during a VERY light period, there was still blood, but it was good for me, and no blood leaked out, so there were no stains.
But in general, when it's that time of the month, we have 'boyfriend days'. I give as much pleasure possible to my boyfriend with my hands and my mouth. I'm still undressed, but I wear panties etc. To compensate, at other times we have 'kuju days' where he gives me as much pleasure as possible. And of course there are free-for-all days where it's nice and balanced.
kuju
Something else. I would NEVER let my boyfriend give me oral sex when I was on my period. that is SO COMPLETELY DISGUSTING!!!
sweet_princess01
I don't think that guys mind it as much as us girls do. I have done stuff while I've been on my period. But I would NEVER let him eat me out during that time. the first time we did anything while I was on my period I was so worried about him being grossed out and all but he didn't mind at all. the first time we did anything, it was just fingering and it was mostly out of curiosity..but it wasn't that bad...not really messy if you keep your pants on and have a pad on. sexy on the other hand can be quite messy. We have done that once and it wasn't as bad as we thought it would be...I had a towel under me and he was wearing a condom so it wasn't horrible...he had a little blood on his penis and there was a little on the towel but there was a lot of blood on me.
Anyways I think that it is just a personal choice...if you don't mind the mess its fine...if you think its gross then that is fine.
Lizzygrl
I know that I personally don't like my boyfriend touching me down there when I'm on my period, cause during that time of the month i don't feel sexy at all, more uncomfortable and kindof miserable. Even if he's just as attracted to me, you have to be feeling good about yourself to want someone else to think you're attractive.
Kitty Kat
Ok, well here's my opinion... I was just asking to see what you all thought about it... But anyways, my b/f and I ALWAYS have sex during my period. That's never stopped us. I was VERY, VERY self-conscious the first time and worried that I'd gross him out. But HE was the one that initiated it. I told him we couldn't fool around down there because it was that "time of the month". He said that was ok, that it doesn't bother him at all, and shouldn't bother me, it's a natural part of being a woman; not something to be ashamed of. So I reluctantly agreed and we went ahead. First of all, my periods are always VERY light, so there's really not any mess at all. Basically all that happens is that when he cums inside of me and it leaks out, it's kind of a reddish color because of the blood. But there's no actual blood left on him or me, or anywhere. Perhaps that's helped me to think of it as ok. But I know he wouldn't mind even if I had a heavy period, he was the one who thought I wa sbeing silly about it. Another note, MOST women have higher sex-drives during their periods, so I think it's silly to hold back and deprive yourself of what you want simply because you have the idea that you're gross, (even though it's perfectly natural and NOT gross). Another thing I wanted to say is that women are MORE sensitive down there during their periods. Which can mean it might be a bit painful for some, but for most women (like me), it just means you'll enjoy the sex more, and get more out of it. I know my sex-drive is through the roof during that time of the month, and since I've learned to stop thinking of myself as "gross" and think of myself as a normal, beautiful, sexy woman instead, and since I'm more sensitive; sex doesn't get any better for me, than it does during my period. I was just curious what everyone's feelings about it were. I think us girls are grossed out by the idea not because WE think it's gross, but because we assume that guys are going to think it's gross and scare them with the blood. But I know my b/f doesn't mind at all. And my best girl friend's b/f is always arguing with her about why he can't have sex with her during her period. He doesn't mind her period at all, but SHE won't let him because she's too up-tight and self-conscious about it. Personally I don't see anything wrong with having sex or fooling around (fingering) during that "time of the month". For me at least, I've found it to be better than normal. BUT, I will agree that I'd never let a guy go down on me during my period. I sure wouldn't want him eating my blood, and then see him coming up and looking like a vampire. Eeeww!
hunny
I've never had sex so I haven't thought about whether to do it during my period or not, but this post reminded me of a funny story in my school. There's a guy who's a senior now, he went down on this girl from my grade and she had her period. That guy will be forever known in our school by the nickname he earned that night,"Big Red."
Queen_Jade
Iv also never had sex. But I dont like to be touched below the waist during that time of the month. I just feel kinda icky and not sexy at all.
Spring
I've never had sex either. But I think I'd give it try.
Ok, just curious, I have a question for the guys and the gals out there...
Guys, how do you feel about fooling around or having sex with a girl during her period? Is that eeeewww gross!? or you'd think about giving it a try? or you already have (would you do it again)?
Girls, how do YOU feel about fooling around or having sex during your period? Is that totally off-limits? not sure? you'd give it a try? or you already have (how did it go, what was your guy's reaction)?
sweetlittlegirl
I would never have sex or fool around a lot during my time of the month. But thats just my opinion. If you do--remember to have plenty of towls on hand.
moonangel
weeeell, every time it's "that time of the month" I keep my boyfriend's hands and other body parts strictly above my waist. For his own sake.
Then one night he had snuck over and we were in bed, and he went to remove my pants and I said, "It's 'that time.'" and he said, "That's OK," and kept going. I kept stalling, "Are you sure?" He was sure. So we did it (btw, this was in complete darkness).
So he got home that morning and he found blood all over him. When he told me later I felt so yuck, i thought it was so sick. He didn't seem to mind though, strangely. He had said before that he doesn't mind the mess. I don't know whether it'll happen again though.
Whoops sorry this is long
chemicalized
Well I don't even like having my boy touch me at all when I have mine, he always tries to grab my ass or something, but my friend has come really close to having her guy mess with her down there during "that time" and she said it was not fun, she was nervous for him to get grossed out. As for me, no way I wouldn't let him touch me down there, I don't think having sex during that time would be too fun, but then again I don't know about others. I'm sure if you be sure to keep it as clean as you can it's alright. Sorry for my stupid reply!
Psyce
I don't think it is gross neither does my boyfriend. The first time we had sex during my period I didnt mind. The only thind i was worried about was if he would get grossed out. We talked about it and he said why should I be embarrased about it every girl has one. I used to think it was gross to until i tried it But now I think why should we miss out on sex once a month when a period is not gross its natural. Us girls are going to have one every month for the next 30 some years thats 360 periods 360 weeks!
Dolemite
Psyce you and your boyfriend are sick, doing that **** at that time of the month, I can't believe you're into bloodsports. I was told about a guy who walked into a takeout one night and everyone thought he'd been in a fight, but he'd just given his girlfriend oral sex and she didn't tell him it was 'that time of the month'. Hell knows how he didn't taste the difference.
sunnyjade
Well, I have a friend who did it once, and the few people that she told thought it was absolutely gross. Everyone thought it was unsanitary and that she was really desperate and her boyfriend was really horny. Not only that, but I mentioned that Trina song, "Da baddest bitch" where she talks about making the guy "eat it with her period on" to my boyfriend fooling around and he was really grossed out. I would be, too, I'd never do it.
kuju
Well, I've done it twice. Once on a fairly heavy period, and we stopped fairly quickly simply because it wasn't good for me at ALL. My boyfriend doesn't mind the blood though. I mind it more. I asked him, "Don't you feel weird having blood on your penis?" and he said he didn't mind.
The other time was during a VERY light period, there was still blood, but it was good for me, and no blood leaked out, so there were no stains.
But in general, when it's that time of the month, we have 'boyfriend days'. I give as much pleasure possible to my boyfriend with my hands and my mouth. I'm still undressed, but I wear panties etc. To compensate, at other times we have 'kuju days' where he gives me as much pleasure as possible. And of course there are free-for-all days where it's nice and balanced.
kuju
Something else. I would NEVER let my boyfriend give me oral sex when I was on my period. that is SO COMPLETELY DISGUSTING!!!
sweet_princess01
I don't think that guys mind it as much as us girls do. I have done stuff while I've been on my period. But I would NEVER let him eat me out during that time. the first time we did anything while I was on my period I was so worried about him being grossed out and all but he didn't mind at all. the first time we did anything, it was just fingering and it was mostly out of curiosity..but it wasn't that bad...not really messy if you keep your pants on and have a pad on. sexy on the other hand can be quite messy. We have done that once and it wasn't as bad as we thought it would be...I had a towel under me and he was wearing a condom so it wasn't horrible...he had a little blood on his penis and there was a little on the towel but there was a lot of blood on me.
Anyways I think that it is just a personal choice...if you don't mind the mess its fine...if you think its gross then that is fine.
Lizzygrl
I know that I personally don't like my boyfriend touching me down there when I'm on my period, cause during that time of the month i don't feel sexy at all, more uncomfortable and kindof miserable. Even if he's just as attracted to me, you have to be feeling good about yourself to want someone else to think you're attractive.
Kitty Kat
Ok, well here's my opinion... I was just asking to see what you all thought about it... But anyways, my b/f and I ALWAYS have sex during my period. That's never stopped us. I was VERY, VERY self-conscious the first time and worried that I'd gross him out. But HE was the one that initiated it. I told him we couldn't fool around down there because it was that "time of the month". He said that was ok, that it doesn't bother him at all, and shouldn't bother me, it's a natural part of being a woman; not something to be ashamed of. So I reluctantly agreed and we went ahead. First of all, my periods are always VERY light, so there's really not any mess at all. Basically all that happens is that when he cums inside of me and it leaks out, it's kind of a reddish color because of the blood. But there's no actual blood left on him or me, or anywhere. Perhaps that's helped me to think of it as ok. But I know he wouldn't mind even if I had a heavy period, he was the one who thought I wa sbeing silly about it. Another note, MOST women have higher sex-drives during their periods, so I think it's silly to hold back and deprive yourself of what you want simply because you have the idea that you're gross, (even though it's perfectly natural and NOT gross). Another thing I wanted to say is that women are MORE sensitive down there during their periods. Which can mean it might be a bit painful for some, but for most women (like me), it just means you'll enjoy the sex more, and get more out of it. I know my sex-drive is through the roof during that time of the month, and since I've learned to stop thinking of myself as "gross" and think of myself as a normal, beautiful, sexy woman instead, and since I'm more sensitive; sex doesn't get any better for me, than it does during my period. I was just curious what everyone's feelings about it were. I think us girls are grossed out by the idea not because WE think it's gross, but because we assume that guys are going to think it's gross and scare them with the blood. But I know my b/f doesn't mind at all. And my best girl friend's b/f is always arguing with her about why he can't have sex with her during her period. He doesn't mind her period at all, but SHE won't let him because she's too up-tight and self-conscious about it. Personally I don't see anything wrong with having sex or fooling around (fingering) during that "time of the month". For me at least, I've found it to be better than normal. BUT, I will agree that I'd never let a guy go down on me during my period. I sure wouldn't want him eating my blood, and then see him coming up and looking like a vampire. Eeeww!
hunny
I've never had sex so I haven't thought about whether to do it during my period or not, but this post reminded me of a funny story in my school. There's a guy who's a senior now, he went down on this girl from my grade and she had her period. That guy will be forever known in our school by the nickname he earned that night,"Big Red."
Queen_Jade
Iv also never had sex. But I dont like to be touched below the waist during that time of the month. I just feel kinda icky and not sexy at all.
Spring
I've never had sex either. But I think I'd give it try.