bdsm?

[Aphrael]

Are you into it? How did you find you you liked it? How much/what kind of stuff do you do?

Just curiosity, I guess.

[Palmer of the Turks]

Into it? Not really... a little spank here and there can be nice, but pain mostly isn't my thing. I'm also too much a Nice Guy to be into the sadist side.

How did I find I liked it? Plain simple experimentation.

Bondage is a different... I like blindfolds, and being tied spread-eagled and then ravished :)
I also like doing that to my partners.

But that's about it.

[SupernaturalNympho]

Sex should be fun. And experimentation is always a good thing (especially if you have an open minded partner who's comfortable with you). A few whips and chains never hurt anybody......much.

[dtbmnec]

Pain + Megan = Crying

Haven't really wanted to try the pain thing.....though a little bit of pain isn't too bad....Of course I had one bf who would bite me as hard as he would when I was really turned on (which I wouldn't mind at the time since I couldn't feel it..) but he'd do it when I wasn't turned on at all (ie. coming up behind me and *chomping noise*) and that hurt....I'd tell him that but he would simply reply with "But you love it".....yeah when I'm busy getting fucked by ya!!!!

I've never actually tied anyone up, however I have actually thought about it seriously....and on friday I'm taking a visit to the Stag Shop with a few friends to see if I can buy a pair of handcuffs.....*evil smile*

Megan

[ittakessome]

i enjoy being bitten and pinched. (not every time....sometimes is fun.) i like it when its done hard too. i dont know why.... i just work that way i guess.

[LynzyLou*]

Blindfolds, handcuffs etc, those can be fun. But Im not into the whole whipping thing.....thats too much pain for me to handle..

[Deidre]

How many times are we going to do this?

Define BDSM.

Yes, I'm "into" it. Not 24/7 D/s, electric shocks, sexual (as in, during sexual activity) piercings and suspension, extreme clamping, vacuum/water torture and such, but otherwise, a lot of it, yes. I would be more "into" it, if it spreader bars, paddles et.c. wasn't so goddamned expensive.

Drawing blood: bad. Having purple nipples for a week: not so bad.

[mini696]

If theres an abnormal amount of pain (ie bruising or blood) then that is over the top.

I really enjoy the anticipation of being hurt (tied up and blindfolded).

I like my GF's to be rough.

Mick

[PepsiWonder]

I got my first TRUE bondage experience last weekend. Tied down to a bed, it was glorious.

I'm also good for rough, semi-vicious, rape-like sex. Biting, pinching, and especially spanking. Sadly though, my boyfriend is quite possibly the nicest guy on the planet. He told me, "I don't have the heart to hit you, even though I know you like it." It's kind of amusing to feel bad that my boyfriend won't hit me. :laugh:

[Deidre]

Originally posted by PepsiWonder@Mar 22 2005, 01:03 AM
He told me, "I don't have the heart to hit you, even though I know you like it."
Odd bloke.

If my boyfriend accidently poked my stomach, he'd be all over me, apologising and making sure I wasn't hurt. He's incredibly afraid of hurting me, yet he'll spank me 'til my bottom's red, chain me up, pull my hair and bite me 'til I'm purple... but if I so much as whisper "ow", he'll be rocking me in his lap, patting my head and kissing my forehead, apologising profusely and asking where it hurts, within a second.


I guess if he doesn't want to, one shouldn't push him... but it seems like a really odd reason not to do something. Sort of like if you learned that testicles are really sensitive, so you don't want to suck on them, but he keeps telling you it feels good... but you still refuse to do it, because you think it'll hurt. If it turns him off however, or brings about anxiety attacks (memories and whatnot), that's another issue altogether.

[Wolf]

Most I enjoy is a woman's claws in my back during sex.


I'm so tame, sometimes.

[Gunny]

I would say I am into it. Howver, since I am in a new and distanced relationship until May I doubt we will get to explore BDSM soon. I know she is very open-minded and experimental and has been very outgoing the few times that we have gotten physical. She actually likes to be on top most of the time and even leaves a few marks on me (which I encourage her to). So, I guess she likes control. That is a big turn-on for me, so hopefully I can encourage that in her in the future. I would love for her to take control in other ways. She has even mentioned stopping by some sex shops soon. Maybe we can pick up some handcuffs and other toys. I would love to expore BDSM with her.

[Palmer of the Turks]

Originally posted by Deidre@Mar 21 2005, 04:36 PM
If it turns him off however
That's what I'm like. I can understand serious S&M intellectually (hell, one of my better friends is into blood and fire play)... but anything past "serious discomfort/mild pain" that personally involves me just... doesn't work. Doesn't squick me, per se, but it does turn me off. Tie me up? Sure, that's uncomfortable (at the worst).
Smack my ass a few times? Alrighty, that's a nice zing. :)
Paddle me till I'm red? NO. Too much pain. And vice versa for dealing it. Even if they LOVE it and can't get enough... I just can't do it.

[Dangeresque]

What does bdsm mean again? Whatever it sounds like I'm pretty sure I'm not into it.

[Palmer of the Turks]

B ondage
D ominance
S adism
M asochism

[Lone_Raider]

No, that is way to much damn equipment just to have sex lol. And no one EVER ties me up, handcuffs me etc. I always have to be fully aware and in complete control of myself and every situation even in daily life, that's just the way I roll.

[dtbmnec]

Well I keep trying to convince my bf to use rope on him but he keeps saying no.....oh well time to break out the handcuffs instead! lol

pain + me = bad and not a turn on......well ok the nibbling biting sometimes is good.....and depends on how turned on i am.....but yeah...

Megan