do girls get offended if????

[JerseyBoy]

say its a 1st kiss situation, and after you hug them and you're still VERY close to them, and you go in for THE kiss, and in the excitement you pop a hard on.

[Danae]

I wouldn't be offended, but I'd probably laugh. You're how old and you can't control your penis? I know many guys my age that can keep it under control until they actually need it. It seems like something that would happen to a 15 year old.

[Dangeresque]

Meh, I can't control it sometimes either, not a biggie from my experience. When I'm at a club and a girl is doing that...whatever the hell dance it's called where they rub their ass up against you...that's their goal.

[chiukit]

Originally posted by Danae@Mar 2 2005, 07:46 PM
I wouldn't be offended, but I'd probably laugh. You're how old and you can't control your penis? I know many guys my age that can keep it under control until they actually need it. It seems like something that would happen to a 15 year old.
hahahaha.
so mean!
so true! ;p

but i dunno what else to say.
just a first kiss? unless youre all over each other making out....

[JerseyBoy]

Well i wasnt asking for myself, just curious is all.

[newlysingle]

riiiiiiiiigh.....this probably happened to you.

[Am I tight or not?]

I find this whole "you should be able to controle it" idea to be quite retarded.

can you control when your nipples get hard? can you control getting wet?

[Tessa LeAnn #2]

Originally posted by Am I tight or not?@Mar 2 2005, 06:14 PM
can you control when your nipples get hard? can you control getting wet?
He makes a good point...

If you're really turned on by someone, these arousal symptoms can show up even before any kind of physical inducement. So, if you're tunred on with anticipation, I guess as much as a simple hug and kiss COULD get a guy hard.

And to answer your question, no, I wouldn't be offended, but I might raise an eyebrow in amusement. A hug and kiss is more like a greeting ("I'm happy to see you") than foreplay ("I can hardly wait to get your clothes off and get busy"). I dunno. I would feel kind of weird if a guy didn't get hard after a few minutes of actual foreplay, though - that would be embarhassing as hell (for the girl and guy, probably).

Tessa

[JerseyBoy]

something about a girl who smells GOOD, and brings me closer to her, even for a simple kiss, and feeling her body pressed against mine, gets me aroused...

[Lone_Raider]

Just kissing, especially the first kiss, I can control myself. For whatever reason, I still get a little nervous before I first kiss a girl, probably because my cursed mind overanalyzes everything even when I tell it to stop! lol. So no action is going on down there. It's mind over matter my friend, you really need to learn to control your thoughts and body better. After reading all your posts, it seems like your mind is always going one way, your body is going another, then you say something completey different then either one of those things are doing. FOCUS!

[yablink3d]

Ya what alot of people have said here already. Control your thoughts. If you can't do this I think you'll find that you are also a 'one minute man' in bed. If you dont want to pop a bonner then just bring up thoughts in your brain that are emberassing moments, or really anything that doesnt have a sexual conotation will do.

I prefer embaressing moments as they are old ones and I usually feel embaressed then pass it off and laugh inside, so theres no huge mood swing. Ill still be happy. Like dont think of the picture of gential worts in your anatomy book or something is what Im trying to say.

[vampbarbie]

There are loads of threads about this already. Use the search Jerseyboy its there for a REASON!

[Asphodelle13]

You keep talking about girl after girl that you encounter. So you must be a good looking fellow. Yet you seem so clueless like a 13 yr old boy when one tries to flirt or communicate with you. Play it kewl! Use the force!(or learn to control it, perhaps) :P Try to learn from your experiences instead of reliving them thoughtlessly over and over again..

*slams head*

[JerseyBoy]

i could post my pic, but i dont feel like getting flamed by some of teh members of this board.

[Dangeresque]

Originally posted by Asphodelle13@Mar 7 2005, 08:06 AM
...you seem so clueless like a 13 yr old boy when one tries to flirt or communicate with you. Play it kewl! ...
You don't seem much older than thirteen using phrases like "kewl!"

[Danae]

Originally posted by Am I tight or not?@Mar 2 2005, 09:14 PM
I find this whole "you should be able to controle it" idea to be quite retarded.

can you control when your nipples get hard? can you control getting wet?
'Eh, whatev. I'm just speaking of my own experience with guys. I've seen plenty control it, so I know it's at least possible.

[JerseyBoy]

being around guys that control getting a hard around you, kinda sounds um weird. when guys are around girls that turn them on, they can't help it.

[chiukit]

uh, yea they can.
unless the woman is trying, then that's different.

[Gezus]

Originally posted by Asphodelle13@Mar 7 2005, 08:06 AM
Yet you seem so clueless like a 13 yr old boy when one tries to flirt or communicate with you.
Um, I'm 13 years old and if a girl got offended because I got a hard on, I'd either tease her for being a lesbian or get offended when she gets turned on or just break it off. Getting offended because you turned someone on is like getting angry because you got someone to suck you off. Doesn't make much sense to me...

[Onlykrc]

Originally posted by Gezus@Mar 12 2005, 12:05 PM
Getting offended because you turned someone on is like getting angry because you got someone to suck you off. Doesn't make much sense to me...
You remind me of my first boyfriend, when I was 13. He was very mature, sometimes he made me feel like a little kid in comparison. It's sad that you get things a 25-year-old man can't seem to comprehend.....or at least that's how I see it.

[Asphodelle13]

Originally posted by Dangeresque@Mar 7 2005, 04:18 PM
You don't seem much older than thirteen using phrases like "kewl!"
Does 'cool' work better for you then? :P

And btw, I'm 22 and confident about my maturity. I just feel like being slap happy at this point after seeing the same topics posted countless times in here because I'm not sure JerseyBoy ever really hears us.