Goodnight kiss?

[piglet]

Are you supposed to kiss a date good night on a first date? If so how do you go about this....

I had a date last night and wanted to kiss him, but it just didn't happen so what now...?

[chiukit]

Sometimes I give a kiss goodnight, sometimes I don't. It depends on the date (person and event), really. Give him/her a hug, then give him/her a kiss. It's simple. And what now? I guess you wait (or initiate) for the next date. *shrug*

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <---says it depends

And i agree. My GF and i are both kinda shy so i only really kiss her goodnight when, duh, its night. And sometimes then i dont always, but i try to atleast show my affection to her one way or another.

[sweet-one]

A kiss isn't always necessary on a FIRST date. It usually depends on the type of date that you had. If you were really close to the guy, yeah, i'd say atleast a hug, or a kiss. If you weren't really interested then don't do anything. Just because the date's over, doesn't mean that you've got to automatically kiss him. A kiss is something special, don't just give them out because it's "what you're supposed to do". If you do happen to go out again, see how it goes, then lean in and kiss him goodnight if you want. :wink:

[acid rain]

A kiss isn't necessary, but if you want to, you can go in for the kill. :evil2: To go about it, just lean in, or maybe he'll make the first move...

[piglet]

Yeah I guess I think my main problem is that I have had 2 boyfriends in the past....one in freshman year who was as shy and inexperienced as me and I shared my first kiss with him and said "eww" hehe well he was a bad kisser but anywyas that just sort of happened that we decided we were going to kiss wasn't out of the blue or anything....anyways then my last boyfriend and I were at this summer program which was all about hooking up basically and so flirting with him I told him Icould do this ear thing that could make any guy laugh so he's like let's go out in the woods and you can show me so I did and we ended up making out so that was obvious but ugh I've never really been in this kind of situation before where I'm not sure if he wants to kiss me or not.......ugh!

[indigold]

You never have to kiss anyone unless YOU want to and feel comfortable doing it. Some people kiss on the first date, some people on the 100th... it depends, really- how you feel about each other.

Just because you didn't kiss on the first date doesn't mean that you can't kiss him anymore... just go about kissing him any other way you'd kiss anyone else.

[piglet]

just go about kissing him any other way you'd kiss anyone else.

Meaning what?! Do I on our next date just lean in and try to kiss him?! Ugh I'm so confused

[Wrightman84]

sure y not?
go for it
or say something lik "arn't you going to kiss me?"

[Wolf]

if it goes really well, a peck on the cheek right by the neck is good...

[hunny]

I've almost always kissed on first dates. I think there was a time or two that I didnt, but it was most likely because the date didnt go very well or I really didn't like the guy that much or something. IF it's a cute guy and we had fun on the date, sure, kiss him. You can wait for him to kiss you if you want, but sometimes that takes alittle longer, til he gets the nerve and confidence to do it.
Always assume, if it was a fun date and you sense that he had a good time, that he would welcome a kiss. Most guys would.
How to go about it? After he brings you home, tell him you had a good time, give him a hug, and while you're close like that, just kiss him. It doesn't have to be all that long or drawn out, keep it short, in fact.
Once a couple years ago I went on a first date with someone who didn't have his license yet (we were barely 16). His MOM had to drop us at the movies and pick us up, but when she got to my house afterwards, she let us both out of the car and went up the street to turn around, thereby giving us a min or two alone. He walked me to my door, and I said, 'do you think you're mom will get mad if she sees me kiss you?' He said, 'hmm, I dunno, lets find out'.. and we kissed.
See, just something like that, it's easy to do.. and guys like it.