need help w/ flirty girl at work...

[JerseyBoy]

so yeah, as the header says i have that problem....

everytime we work, she is always 'bumping' into me, touches me on my waist and stuff. but my dilemma is at one point during a conversation she mentioned something about a guy she is kinda seeing. i'm lost and confused, cause i know 'touching and flirting' is a sign that interest is there.

[Juan]

dont be lost and confused.... if she is just simply brushing past you then i wouldnt call that being flirty and touchy.....hrmmmmmm...

seems as if she is just going about a normal days work and is happy seeing other people..

i dont really get the point behind your post.

i think your reading into something thats probably not there dude

[Fun Lovin' Criminal]

Choo Choo! The JerseyBoy 'Looking too much into things' train is leaving the station! Last call. All aboard!

[Palmer of the Turks]

:werd: to FLC

I bump into people at work all the time myself.
I'm not flirting with them when I do.

If I'm going to flirt with them, I do it other ways. Touching is something I think is generally inappropriate at the "don't really know each other well" stage.

You can always feign ignorance of her "kinda" boyfriend (kinda???) and just ask her out.

What's the worst that can happen? She says no?

[Deidre]

:werd:

"touching and flirting"... "and"... not "touching or flirting" is a sign of interest.

"and".

[chiukit]

sure... 'tis a sign of interest... but it has to go with all the other signs.
just one thing standing alone isnt enough.

[JerseyBoy]

not that it matters, because she goes back to school in a week, but my point is that its not just her casually brushing past me, she is going out of her way to brush up against me, this happened about 4 or 5 times in a span of 30 minutes.

[Anthropolemic]

How can you be sure she's going out of her way? Do you work in a tight space? My co-workers brush me all the time, it sure as hell doesn't mean they want me. It's because my desk is in the walking aisle (lame, I know).

[DiabloMan]

JerseyBoy,

That's just your mother telling you to move out of the way. and that other dude is your father.


seriously, stop going after your mother.

[JerseyBoy]

hey anthro, welllllllll in addition to the 'brushing up' thing she is putting her hands on my back. and again its not a big deal since she is going back to school in a week. just don't understand why she would be all flirty one minute the next , mention her bf.

[Prism]

some girls are just terribly, terribly, HUGE flirts.

i am one of these girls.

she probably is just a touchyfeely, overly flirty person -->and the mention of the bf is to get the point across that she IS just a natureal flirt.

L.