Nice guys get some?

[Haboob804]

Is it less likely that "nice guys" will get girlfriends? I know it must sound really stupid but it seems to me that guys that pick on people for laughs and that screw around in calss etc etc etc etc etc have better chances of getting a gf. As for the quite, responible, sensible guys that actually do there work in class, well it doent look good for them.

Although it probably is just there personalities are more fun, right? Or that they are more socialy active, right?

Sorry! For you time! Thanks!

Its good to know that there are people out there willing to help newbish idiots like me :dance:

[kuju]

the thing is... "nice guys" usually means "quiet, socially reserved guys" and frankly, the girls can't know you're interested in them if you never open your mouth. The outspoken guys get laughs, TALK to the girls, make signs that they're interested. So they get girlfriends.

I think that most girls would generally prefer a guy who talks and makes jokes, but not at the expense of other people

[meeso]

Is it less likely that "nice guys" will get girlfriends?

Nice guys? or pussies?

[Lone_Raider]

You might find this old post useful Over Here (http://www.therfs.com/index.php?showtopic=16748&st=0&#entry263042) Read my reply, Crash's Prism's, just read the whole thing basically lol.

[Haboob804]

So confidence is very atractive and very important? Well it looks like im screwed then

[sunfrost]

Originally posted by Haboob804@Oct 23 2004, 08:41 AM
So confidence is very atractive and very important? Well it looks like im screwed then
With that attitude you probably are...

[Fun Lovin' Criminal]

Probably? Definitely.

Confidence is everything.

[Crash Override]

Ah, the old "nice guy vs. asshole" argument.

I always try and put it in a way that people understand, in that it's not the asshole factor, but the confidence factor that attracts girls, and even created a helpful guide to what exactly it is about "assholes" that girls like (you can find it here: http://therfs.com/index.php?showtopic=5522 ).

...but really, the more I think about it, the more I realize that it really is that a lot of girls seem to enjoy being treated like shit all the time.

The solution? Well, you can either completely overhaul your personality to become the kind of person that I describe in that post I just linked to...or you can take the easy way out and just treat women like absolute shit all the time.
Treat a girl like shit and she'll love you forever (or at least, for a very long time).
Treat a girl with love, attention and respect, and you'll be taken for granted, cheated on, walked on, pissed on, and generally fucked over.

Remember, make sure that when you're treating a girl like shit, it seems effortless and like a natural aspect of your personality - if it looks like you're working too hard to treat her like shit, she'll clue in and drop you like a bad habit.

For example: you don't need to be confident, you just need to make sure she feels worthless. Hey, if you can't increase your own confidence, just destroy hers! It'll make you SEEM like you're more confident (relative to her, anyway), and it's a lot easier and more fun.

[Shocka]

Originally posted by Crash Override@Oct 24 2004, 12:50 AM
I always try and put it in a way that people understand, in that it's not the asshole factor, but the confidence factor that attracts girls, and even created a helpful guide to what exactly it is about "assholes" that girls like (you can find it here: http://therfs.com/index.php?showtopic=5522 (http://www.goat.cx) ).

For example: you don't need to be confident, you just need to make sure she feels worthless. Hey, if you can't increase your own confidence, just destroy hers! It'll make you SEEM like you're more confident (relative to her, anyway), and it's a lot easier and more fun.
I :heart: Bil

[kuju]

*shakes head at Bil*

really though... if you ever decide to completely overhaul your personality, ask Bil. He REALLY knows how to do it well.

And something I've noticed. If you act like your happy, you will tend to be even a little bit happier. endorphins and all. I also find that if you act as though you're confident, you will BE more confident. (and even if you aren't, fuck, at least the act will fool her!)

[Haboob]

For example: you don't need to be confident, you just need to make sure she feels worthless. Hey, if you can't increase your own confidence, just destroy hers! It'll make you SEEM like you're more confident (relative to her, anyway), and it's a lot easier and more fun.

Or i could not...

[newlysingle]

my ex boyfriend's best friend is a really quiet guy, polite and curteous, so I always thought he was such a nice guy and why wouldn't girls want to date him. Well, I got to know him and yeah he's courteous and polite, but when you actually have a conversation he has a condescending tone and acts like he's better than anyone else. So in short, a real dick.